I use the term ‘giving’ instead of ‘losing’ for a reason. I gave my virginity to my partner. Nothing was lost or taken. I don’t understand why we use such negative terms for something that should be a positive experience. Of course, it isn’t always, and as I grew up, I never expected it would be. When I talked to my parents about sex, I had always been told not to expect anything ‘magical’ the first time. They said it would be painful, messy, awkward and quick and that it would be better the second time. None of my friends had any advice to offer me, as they were all virgins themselves. Although I had been told it wasn’t a big deal, and I probably wouldn’t remember my first time when I got older, I still wasn’t eager to ‘get it over with’ like a lot of people I knew were. So, I waited until I met someone really special to share that moment with.
And I did meet someone special. Someone who loved me, and who I knew would be careful and tender for our first time together. We waited six long moths until we were ready to ‘do the deed’ and it went better than I could have ever hoped for. Since we were both virgins, we were really nervous and we didn’t know what to expect. We sat on my bed and talked for quite a while before we started the foreplay. Once we were ready, we just did it. Simple as it sounds. There was no pain or bleeding at any point, and we went at it for an hour and a half the first round, took a quick break, and went for another hour and a half for the second round. It was amazing mostly because it was with the right person, but also because we had been prepared for the act, whether we knew we were or not.
And I did meet someone special. Someone who loved me, and who I knew would be careful and tender for our first time together. We waited six long moths until we were ready to ‘do the deed’ and it went better than I could have ever hoped for. Since we were both virgins, we were really nervous and we didn’t know what to expect. We sat on my bed and talked for quite a while before we started the foreplay. Once we were ready, we just did it. Simple as it sounds. There was no pain or bleeding at any point, and we went at it for an hour and a half the first round, took a quick break, and went for another hour and a half for the second round. It was amazing mostly because it was with the right person, but also because we had been prepared for the act, whether we knew we were or not.
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