Fantasies and realities are two separate things that get mixed together sometimes. Fantasy is an idea that you have in your mind, a scenario that is well thought, orchestrated and set. The characters, settings and actions are all perfectly set to your mood. Sexual fantasies are the most common fantasies that people have. We all have fantasies about a certain person (whether actor, friend or anyone we find sexy and deliciously hot) or activity (sex in bus, threesomes and many many other things). The thing is though: is reality the same as fantasy? Is it ok to make a fantasy a reality? What should be considered before doing that? I will discuss some points about all these questions in this article.

Fantasies are a great thing. They are naturally normal and it just means that we have desires and needs that we like to fulfill. But like all dreams, fantasy does not mean it is same as reality. You see, many things that we fantasize about are just thoughts; a stream of ideas and desires that we perfectly create in our minds. Everything is perfectly set, organized and well orchestrated. For example, a guy fantasizes about a threesome with two hot women. In his fantasy the two girls make out, play with each other's intimate parts while seducing him as well. Although the idea is perfectly set in his mind, making it a reality is a totally different thing. In real life, not all girls are bisexual or open to having someone share their partner. Just like it's the same for a girls' fantasy of boy-boy girl threesome. That's why it is important to discuss these fantasies with your partner before you try and attempt to do them in real life. Without openness and understanding it would not work. In fact, the result could be worse and ruining.

My fantasy was always to do anal with my boyfriend. I always fantasized about having his cock in my mouth while having a butt plug in my ass. The thought of it just makes me go wild and wet. But, when I first tried it, it was not the same. In fact, I felt like I was pooping the entire time and I felt uncomfortable. In time, I did start liking it and things changed, but it is never the same as in my fantasy. Fantasies are the things that we create in our minds, but not necessary want them in real life.

I know many girls like to fantasize about double penetration. I am one of these girls. In my fantasies, I always think of myself having both my boyfriend and a guy I used to have a crush on penetrate me simultaneously and caressing my body. But if you ask me to do it in real life, I am not sure if I want to do it. The fact that I love my boyfriend and I know he is not comfortable with having another guy engaging with him in sexual activities, make me realize that such thoughts are better in fantasy than reality. In fact, I like my fantasy too much to ruin it. I feel like it's my little secret that I like to think of, to hide from the world. It feels more intimate, more promiscuous and arousing.

In the end, I just like to say this: fantasies are not always good to be turned into realities. Not because we can not do it, but because it is not always as perfect as we think about them. That is because we are not the only ones involved in them. We have to make sure that our partners are open-minded and feel comfortable about the idea. Also, the fantasy is what you want it to be, but it might not suite you in real-life. It could actually do quite the opposite and ruin your perfect dream.