This is actually the first penetration toy I've ever gotten, and it's still the only one! Since I have no other experiences, I can't accurately compare it with anything else, but I will say I believe it's an excellent beginner's toy and good for gentle, "light" play.

It's only four inches from tip to top with an insertable length of maybe two and three-quarters inches, and just barely two and one-forth inches around! That being said, its size is quite nice for myself but it won't suit everybody.

The wings are thin and flexible and cup the labia while the teensy nose of the butterfly kisses the clitoris nicely, but the end of its abdomen isn't long or curved enough to properly stimulate the anus or perineum without some maneuvering, and since it's supposed to be hands-free, it's counterproductive in that aspect. On that same subject, the elastic straps meant to go around your waist and thighs are a bit confusing at first and can get a little tangled, but are fine once you know how to use them; however, I don't find they hold the toy where it should be: the waist strap pulls it upwards and the thigh straps don't make up for it. In the future this toy would probably have to be attached to pseudo underwear for it to reach the correct areas.

The actual penis of the toy is quite flexible and if you have a shallow G-spot this should do wonders for you! Perhaps this is just me, but I found I couldn't even walk or sit normally with this toy in; it felt too big and on the verge of popping out, but that might just be because I'm so petite and new to this! I'm a little disappointed I couldn't wear this outside of the house, though.

This toy is made up of a pretty, transparent jelly material, so while you should feel free to show it off, definitely use protection and toy cleaners before and after usage, especially if you share it! It heats up really nicely but it smells strongly of plastic, even after several washes.

I broke the very next time I tried to use it, along with my heart. Though it may have been the way I rolled up the wiring when it wasn't in use, its fragility was upsetting. Though our relationship was fleeting, this toy will always have a special place in my heart (and unmentionables) as my first. But golly, do I wish it still had better reach!