The We-vibe is one of those toys that seem like a great idea on paper. Ideally, you and your partner use the We-vibe during vaginal intercourse to stimulate both your clit and g-spot while enjoying being penetrated by your partner. As an added bonus, your boyfriend or husband can also enjoy the vibrations at the same time. Unfortunately, the application of the We-vibe is harder than in theory. First and foremost, the We-vibe is not exactly ergonomically designed to fit the female form…and stay put. Without straps or any other anchoring point, the We-vibe is prone to shift, even falling out when changing positions. The slipping and sliding of the We-vibe is its downfall.


For as great of an idea as it is, if it doesn't stay in place, then you are going to have more trouble than it's worth. The second major problem is that the We-vibe is a one-size-fits-most kind of product. Every woman is going to have a slightly different angle to their vagina as well as a slightly different depth to their g-spot. As a result, you may only hit either your clit or your g-spot at one time…or neither. Due to its tendency to slip out of place, you'll find that the position which works best with the We-vibe is cowgirl or woman on top. This way, you can hold onto the We-vibe in the position you want it to. However, it causes one user to constantly be aware of what they are doing, and it keeps you from fully relaxing and enjoying the experience. One the plus side, though, it can work the way it's supposed to if you don't move very much or very quickly. In either man on top or woman on top positions, you can align the We-vibe to hit your clit just right. As long as you don't move too much, the We-vibe can stay in place and do its magic. If the stars are in alignment with you and your We-vibe, then the two of you can really enjoy a very hot experience. However, it may take a lot of trial and error to reach that state of bliss.


As far as the rest of the story, the We-vibe is really a nice, high-quality toy. It is rechargeable and keeps its charge for about 30-45 minutes of play when fully charged. Although, the charge time tends to decrease with use just like any other rechargeable battery. The toy is very pleasant to look at and is not very scary looking at all compared to some other cock ring vibes. Finally, it is relatively easy to clean with the exception of the clit ridges that tend to collect lube or residue that needs extra scrubbing. Finally, it comes with a nice hard shell case to keep your investment safe when not in use.

When we first got the We-vibe, we thought we would love it, and for the first minute or two we did. However, when we realized how difficult it was to keep in position, it became more of a game to see how long we could keep it going before it slipped off target. Eventually, we realized that if we were going to achieve our goal of a simultaneous orgasm with the We-vibe, we'd have to make sure it didn't move off my wife's clit. So, after a lot of experimenting with different strategies, we determined that the cowgirl position was best and she could find the right spot with it and then I would try to hold it in place. Eventually we hit the winning combination and held it out for the count. However, since then, I don't believe we've tried again for a rematch.

Now, we don't use the We-vibe expecting it to give us the miracle orgasm. We like to use it as part of foreplay now where we start off very slow so as not to cause the We-vibe to slip out of position. When we get all hot and bothered, then we switch to something else. As foreplay, the We-vibe works much better.