After several months of waiting on a new product, I finally get My Private “O” Discreet Massager|My private "O" Massager by California Exotic. It arrived in a huge box but when I opened it, the toy was so small. I know, good things can come in small packages, but this was really small! I opened it quickly and put the one AAA battery in that it required. Turning it on, I was surprised at the amount of vibration it put out. However, there was only one speed and that was a disappointment. It turns on with a push button on the end that is not as easily turned off during play time.

The product review did provide some positive points about the product. It is phthalates free and waterproof. Both of these features are positives for me. It is also small enough to carry almost anywhere with you and it is quiet enough to use in most areas, even with other people around. It has a pointed end that aids in the sensations and has an indented midsection that I think is supposed to help with textures and sensations? I’m not real sure about that because it did little for me.

The time came to put it to the test. First, I tried it out on solo play. Although the vibrations felt good, they were not strong enough to make me climax. It was strong enough to make me want to get out one of my larger, stronger vibes and finish the job. The second time I tried it out, it was with hubby and we used it as foreplay. Again, the vibes were strong enough to feel good but not strong enough for much more. This time, he was able to finish the job. The third time we took it to the hot tub. The vibrations were a little stronger when used in the water but still it was just strong enough to start things.

I think this item works the best when used in water. Maybe it is just my preference but I thought it produced a stronger vibration when in the hot tub.

This little vibe a great warm up for other toys but by itself, it just doesn't get the job done. We've found that by starting out with it, and then going to other toys, it serves its purpose as a "starter" so all is not wasted.