i have to admit, i was a little uneasy trying this one. i have had the same thing happen over and over. they are not all good. they dont stay in place. and they dont do the job. this is on some level better. it is for sure a good little toy. it is strong for a medium level user. but needs more power to keep the regulars happy. they control seems touchy. it doesnt have set settings. it is a slide button. which moves easy. so if kept in your pocket it will do what it want. could be good surprise but not when it shuts itself off. it is good seized but seems to not want to stay in place. i had to keep adjusting it. so it frustrated me. so overall, it is a good first time butterfly. good for a novice. looking to see what its about. cheap and fun. the straps are great though. very strechy. adjustable and strechy. always a plus. anyone from very tiny to plus size can fit this.

as far as with a partner, it just seems to get in the way. it is a nice size, but the length is just a bit too long to have intercoarse. it will move and shift and just frustrate you. but the novice might enjoy it. just having the sensation of it there. it is bigger than i expected it to be gerth wise too. a very fat little thing. which is good for laying down. however under clothes walking around it seemed to get pushed out by the lips. but each person is shaped differently. you might just have to try.

as far as the feel of the toy not how it makes me feel. material wise... it is soft. moveable. and very easy to clean. the straps seem to be out of the way of needing cleaning. but dont seem like they are hard to clean. it takes 3 aa batts. weird number, but you will always have a spare. i hope this helps. like i said. i had fun. but this seems to be more a first time, "getting to know you" type of butterfly. perfect for the novice.