The basic purpose of this vibrator is to stimulate the clit and g-spot simultaneously. The tear drop portion is inserted and the antennae vibrate and should hit your clit. Given the design of the product and the way body parts are discussed in the marketing, it's probably best used by those with feminine identities. Conceivably, it could be used by FTMs/trans masculine identifying people, but some might find it demasculating or dysphoria inducing. I personally felt like this product was missing both my g-spot and clit, and was disappointed. It doesn't offer a lot of room for manipulation, so if your g-spot is further up than average you might be out of luck. Similarly, I like to move vibrators around my clit and enjoy the varying sensations of different spots, but that's not easily done with this.

The material of this toy is soft, which makes the g-spot massager easy to insert. For my purposes, I'd have liked the g-spot massager to be a little firmer. The material is waterproof, so it can be taken in the shower/cleaned easily. The packaging didn't note any lube restrictions but in a better-safe-than-sorry mentality I'd only use water-based lubes. Eden gives it a 7 out of 10 for material safety, which for someone who likes to use condoms on toys made of materials given 10 of 10, was a little nerve wracking. A condom can be slipped on the g-spot massager but it's not exactly practical to do so on the clit massager.

As I mentioned before, I felt like this product missed my g-spot and clit. The design doesn't offer a lot of room for comfortable manipulation unless you are willing to bend yourself into a pretzel to do so. This vibe is bright pink, which I don't consider inherently discreet. I do think given that it's small and super feminine, it might be good for women just starting to explore toys because it's not overwhelming.

The button for the vibe is located at the base of the product, so it's easy to adjust the speed while inserted. You just press the button to move through the nine speeds. I have another product from Cal Exotics (ironically called The Whisper) which sounds like hair clippers. This is much quieter, but at the cost of power. It does offer variety which I liked, but given that I couldn't get it to hit my spots right, this wasn't much help to me. On one of the settings, the clit massagers vibrate, then pause, which I thought was interesting. I tried also using the g-spot massager on my clit thinking this would allow me to move up and down and around my clit more easily, but it's a bit big for that purpose.

The shape isn't perfect for use with condoms. Water based lubes are a safe bet. It might be compatible with other lubes, but the packaging doesn't indicate either way. Given that it's meant to be inserted and stimulate the clit at the same time, I can't imagine using it simultaneously with other dildos or vibrators. It's waterproof and therefore easy to clean with mild, unscented soap and water.

The box is small; about the size of one of those single sleeve Oreo or Ritz packages they sell at drugstores. The package has a picture of the product on it, so if you use it for storage, like I do, it won't exactly be a secret what's in there.

This toy is not a favorite of mine. I have up, to this point, only used it solo but might in the future try it with my partner and see if he can manipulate it in a way that works for me.