This butterfly has a lot of "buzz" to it. It has three speeds. When you get used to the feeling of one level, you can switch it up. The remote is on a cord. The product would be better if it were wireless, but the cord is long enough that it is not that inconvenient for my partner and I to use. The batteries (3 AAs) have good life and they are easy to change when they do die. It is small enough (2") that you can discreetly use it — if you can find a place to hide the cord. The vibrations are not too loud on the lower levels. I would not suggest the highest level for discreet play.

I found that I do not like to use the straps. They did not hold the butterfly firmly in place for me. It often slipped when I was enjoying it with my partner and would interrupt things. It would slide around and lose contact with "my spot." I enjoyed it better with just my hands and used it like a regular bullet that had a nice smooth texture.

I like the texture and the soft feeling to the jelly coating on the outside of the butterfly. The nubs made a pleasurable texture for me. It was very easy to clean with a cleansing spray and cloth. I did end up cutting the straps off because they were not so easy to keep clean. I found I would spend a lot of time trying to wash the straps out to my satisfaction.

This butterfly adds a great addition to oral sex too. We find it fits nicely in the palm of a hand to add easy vibrations during foreplay. That is another reason I like its size. It’s not too hard to add this butterfly to all kinds of bedroom activities.

I still use this every once in a while. It is still a great toy, but I'm experimenting with more interesting things now!!