My partner and I received this as a gift at a joint bachlorette party last year. I had never experienced a toy like this and was very interested in trying to add a little vibration to oral sex, but I couldn't get it to stay on my tongue! I tried putting it further back, but was afraid I'd end up gagging on it. It didn't allow for very much movement and if I put it far enough back on my tongue to make it stay, I felt like I was going to choke on it. I absolutely love giving oral sex, but this toy made it aggravating and tiresome for the both of us.

It also kept me from being able to maneuver my tongue the way I wanted to, and the way my partner wanted to. We gave up on it after a couple of tries and ended up using it only for foreplay. It works just fine on your finger or in your hand, or even tucked inside your partner's panties. It can even be put on other toys! But as an oral sex toy, it just didn't do the job.

It became more annoying than pleasurable to try and make it stay put and actually hindered the oral sex. It isn't worth the frustration, and if vibration is what you're going for, perhaps sticking with a basic vibrating toy would be best.

I can see how this toy would be great used on your fingers in the shower or even in bed. It is small and could easily be taken on trips without being obvious. It is also not the quietest toy, but the sound could easily be muffled enough not to be heard. This would also be a great toy if you lived in a dorm room or with roommates, who you worried about seeing you carrying your vibrator to the shower. It can easily fit in your hand and be concealed.

Since we got this toy at a bachlorette party, I assumed it was more of a novelty toy than one created for actual oral sex. After an attempt or two at using it, it ended up in the bottom of our toy box somewhere and was never used again. I think it is a great concept, but doesn't really allow for much control or actual tongue movement. I think this toy could be much more fun for foreplay than for oral sex. It's small, discreet, and I wouldn't even feel weird bringing it on vacation when I can't fit anything else in my bag.

Incorporating this into foreplay is actually pretty fun. It works great for me to slip between my partner and myself for some extra stimulation. But it still doesn't work on your tongue!