I like sex, toys, and the color pink. So, this toy felt like it was meant for me. NOPE!

The Embrace Body Wand Massager isn't a very heavy toy, so that is a plus. Most wands created for serious business tend to be quite light. This one strikes a good balance between both worlds. The Embrace charges via USB with a special cable. I have a lot of sex toys, and I hope they will just make a standard plug-in charger for them. I charged the wand up for 3 hours. It has a light that goes from amber to green to let you know it is done charging. I spent about 15 minutes figuring how to use this vibrator. This toy has 2 control buttons and 7 settings. Maybe it was me, but I found this super confusing. I much prefer the low and high options of the Hitachi Wand — this is especially true if you are using the toy with a partner. They will spend over 30 minutes trying out all the settings: this can be fun, but not always.

After I have found a setting that I liked, I moved the wand around. The end with the rounded head just was not enough; I moved it lower down, and it did not feel good at all. I have noticed that I can still use the handle for stimulation though the controls are on the handle. The other end that is pointed is a continuation of the handle, and I have tried it. That is way too much, and it ended up hurting my clit.

I ended up throwing the toy to the side and finishing on my own. There goes $100 I will never get back. Hopefully, I will soon have a girl over who will like it. In the meantime, I am also planning on using it on the balls of dudes.

I honestly wanted to like this toy. The Hitachi wand is too much for me, even with towels to buffer its power. That is why I have been looking for something with lower wattage and not this complicated.