I had initially tried this on the bed. It still felt good, but not great. The pad is pretty flexible(I think so it doesn’t break easily when you sit on it. It wasn’t a great experience, maybe it’s because I am plus sized, but it may just be that you always need it on a hard surface. I decided to give it another try on a chair and wow wow wow, that made such a difference. The vibrations feel great and grinding on it while guiding myself with my arms as I thrusted made it feel absolutely amazing. If there was one thing I could change, I would add a higher bumps to get the clit and pussy. I have a very thick labia and it would make it even more amazing for everyone.