I had a good first impression of the Fondler! It was well packaged in the same style box as other products made by Eden. I liked the size of it immediately! Most duel-tip vibrators like these seem to be much smaller with the tips closer together, which is most likely for very direct clit stimulation. However, since I’m on testosterone, my clitoris has grown significantly, so I have a harder time using those toys. This one is a bit larger, and the tips have more space between them (and are also pretty flexible), so I was relieved I’d be able to fit it around my anatomy well.

I was also surprised at how quiet it is! This toy is surprisingly powerful despite only letting out a soft hum.

This was the first toy I used out of the 5 I had ordered, so you can tell I was excited. The reason I had chosen this toy over other clitoral vibes was that I thought I could use the twin tips to “jack off” my t-dick instead of just squishing it. And oh yeah, you can do that with this toy! The motors are quite powerful. I just used it on the lowest setting for the first go, and it was more than enough to push me over the edge. The first setting is very “rumbly,” so I ended up getting more out of it than the higher two settings, even though the vibrations are less intense. Definitely knew I’d be using it again after the first use!

I seriously like this toy more with each use. I usually use the first setting, but I also really love the first pattern setting, which is surprising because normally, patterns on vibrators make it hard for me to cum for some reason. I haven’t had any issues with it dying during use either, which I was a tad worried about since the run time on the box said 1 hour, and I tend to take a lot of time. I’ve definitely had it run at least 1.5 hours, though.

I also have noticed it actually increases the vibration intensity the more you press it into you! It feels like when an automatic car shifts gears and lurches a tiny bit. It helps get rid of that effect a lot of wand vibrators have, where pressing it into yourself actually deadens the vibrations. This is super nice.

This is absolutely a toy I’d recommend for anyone with bottom growth from testosterone. I think it would also be very good for people who are used to wand-style vibrators and want something a little different that can still provide deep vibrations on your whole labia, which you can do by laying it at a lower angle.

The one minor issue I have is that it vibrates the end your hand holds. This is to be expected. I mean, it’s the size of the palm of your hand and has two motors in it. I’d honestly be surprised if it didn’t vibrate the whole thing! It’s not so bad that it makes your hand go numb or anything; just be careful not to get too much lube on your hand, or it’ll definitely shimmy its way out of your grip.

As I mentioned before, the way I usually use this toy is by stroking my t-dick with the two tips. The vibrations are very powerful at the tips since the motors are located there. You can diffuse the vibrations around your labia more by holding it at a shallow angle if you don’t want such intense pinpointed stimulation.

I’d say this toy provides some pretty good orgasms. Not the MOST intense I’ve ever had, as that honor goes to the few times, I’ve used one of my air-pulse toys after a week-long dry spell. However, those toys tend to be a bit overwhelming before my body gets into the groove, so even though the orgasms are less intense, I still end up using this toy far more often!! Don’t let me fool you into saying it’s not intense. It’s definitely far from a disappointing ending.