The Vr9 is the largest of the three dual sided Vanity vibrators. As usual, the product page and I have a disagreement or two. For total length, the product page lists 9.75”. I have 10”. For diameter, they have 1 1/8”. I’m not even sure what section they were measuring to tell you which one I have. The smaller bulb is 1”. The tapered section underneath the bulb is 5/8”. The larger end is 1.75”. The taper of the larger end is 1”. I don’t know where 1 1/8” came from, but I didn’t get that measurement anywhere. Maybe the smaller end? They list insertable length as 4.5”, but as is the case with all the Vanity dual ended vibrators, you can pretty much insert either end up the other end since it’s waterproof and you can insert past the buttons.
Here you can see it in my hand for size reference:
Since all I had to go on was the product page, I knew this would be long but didn’t expect it to be quite as wide as it is. I don’t have my measurements in front of me, but if memory serves me, the other Vanity vibrators are 1.5” diameter at the bigger end. This one is larger than the other ones buy .25” (so long as my measurements are correct). Now, I could be off by some, but it is bigger in feeling so I know it’s at least somewhat larger than the other two.
The bigger end of the dual ended vibrators is my favorite because of the deep, strong vibrations. I had to really work up to getting this inserted. I was able to do it, but it was certainly not the easiest task for me. I usually cannot handle a diameter above 1.5”. I will say that because it tapers down quickly, once it was inserted it was not uncomfortable to hold inside of me. I was able to use it this way paired with an external vibrator while rotating the Vr9. I could not thrust it due to the size.
The smaller end, at 1”, was much easier for me to insert and use. I was able to insert and thrust easily with this side.
The nice thing about the dual end is that a beginner or advanced user, someone who likes smaller vibrators or someone who likes bigger vibrators will all have something available to use. Each of the ends curve for G spot stimulation as well.
Speaking of which, here’s a photo of the curve:
As you can see, the little end and the big and both curve so they can both be used for G spot stimulation. The small end offers a more pinpoint stimulation while the large end offers a broader sensation. Since not every user will be able to have a G spot orgasm the same way, this vibrator decided to have both options. No matter which type you need, it can be found here.
The neck on the larger end is not flexible and will apply a lot of pressure to the G spot. The neck on the smaller end is somewhat flexible toward the direction that you see the head point. It is not as flexible as the Vr2 or Vr8. It’s not as firm as some of my other toys - G-Ki, Gigi, Pure Wand, etc. If you need an absolutely rigid toy with no flex, this one still might not do it for you. If you can handle just a little give, you will be able to apply a good amount of pressure to your G spot with the small end of this. You should be able to get pressure either way with the large end because it doesn’t have flex to it.
Some of you may know from my reviews that I have a G spot that doesn’t like me. I don’t know if that’s true. It sure feels like it most days. For whatever the reason, I have a really hard time achieving G spot orgasms. I have three toys that have managed it thus far: Pure Wand, G-Ki, and DeLight. The Vr9 feels like heaven on my G spot. I can get a lot of pressure on it and get it in just the right place (which is hard to do as mine is located a little to the left just to make my G spot problems worse).
However, despite multiple attempts, I cannot seem to actually get a genuine G spot orgasm from this design. The only thing that has proved to be effective for me is hook shaped (or “U” shaped) curves and this just isn’t curved enough. I need the curve to actually hook upward toward the sky to get my G spot to do anything. So alas, this didn’t quite do that for me. Despite that, I can get an amazing vaginal orgasm from this in about thirty seconds flat. So not all is lost. If you have a difficult G spot, don’t write this one completely. It can still be used as a regular curve shaped vibrator with a lot of success.
This one is the hardest storage wise, due to the size. It should still fit in most drawers. It comes with a pouch for easy storage.
I’m voting “not discreet.” My husband says this looks like Nessie, the Loch Ness Monster. I agree! However, I can’t imagine why I would have a vibrating Nessie around the house and I can’t believe many people are going to buy that as a viable explanation of what this is. It still has traditional G spot curves and anyone with a G spot toy will know what this is.