The Venus Butterfly is a must have for couples or women alone. I got this product to use with my girlfriend who had never used toys before. She was hesitant as first, but after trying it fell in love with the butterfly. Now she grabs for it all the time to get things started, or just for some fun while we are watching something.

The battery life on this product is phenomenal, and it is super easy to replace them. Not to mention, the variable speed on the butterfly makes it amazing. I can alternated speeds in random intervals to really tease her and make her have ridiculous orgasms. The top speed can be quite intense and it's fun to watch her eyes widen when in happens.

The only problem with this product is the straps, but don't let this deter you from this buy. The straps do not work too well because they are tiny and hard to adjust. We simply removed them and use the butterfly separate. Perhaps better straps could be bought separately to better hold the butterfly tight to the clit. They are simply too thin and small, and do not adjust well nor hold the butterfly tight. Then again, I'm not sure if there is a product out there that can do that effectively, so keep that in mind as well.

As for lubes, she either doesn't use any or grabs some ID Juicy Lube since that's what we really like. This product is really easy to clean as well and the material is very soft and jelly-like. The nose on the butterfly is not too pokey and works perfect for her.

Overall its a must have to get some clit action in there while have sex. As a couple, this is a fun toy that either of us can grab to start something, or use to get just a few more orgasms for the woman before she's tuckered out.

Since the straps don't work well I recommend a missionary position with this product, or any positions which allow pressure of the butterfly against the clit.