I was interested in finding a more advanced vibrator, but I was still intimidated by a lot of toys. This was cute, decently small, and a good price to use to learn more about my body. The butterfly wings are used to stimulate your clit. The Butterfly Kiss can also be used for your g-spot. It is terrific for solo play, and you can take it in the shower or tub! I would recommend it to beginners, but advanced users could also have some fun.

This toy is made with TPR. I did not notice any smell to it out of the package. There is no taste to it. It has a safety rating of 7 on Eden's scale. It feels smooth to the touch, except it has raised hearts near the bottom. The hearts do not add any extra stimulation since you will not insert that area. When running it along my skin, it drags a bit, but it's not too bothersome. It is extremely flexible, which is one of the things I love about it!

The shaft is smooth and small with a little bulb at the top to stimulate the g-spot. Since it's not big, it would be fairly easy to hide. It wouldn't be the toy I would reach for first when traveling, but don't think it would be too bad to travel with. It obviously looks like a sex toy, so I would always make sure to put it away. The base fits perfectly in my hand, and the shaft is 3 1/2". During use, it seems awkward to me and doesn't seem to work well with my body. The butterfly wings don't hit my clit. I have to spend a lot of time trying to find a position that feels good while using it. I usually just give up on trying to find a spot that feels good and focus on my clit. Also, I feel like I have to press it hard against me to get off. If you are a beginner, I would still recommend this since you can have an orgasm with it and find out if you like something like this. I still have hope that in the future I will love it!

There are three speeds to it: low, medium, and high. You twist open the bottom to insert two AAA batteries. I don't often have a use for AAA batteries, so I'm glad this toy is not a battery guzzler. To operate, there is a button on the bottom that you press to cycle through the speeds. I normally skip the first one since it is not powerful enough for me. I take it to the third speed when I want to orgasm. There are no patterns, which could be a negative if you like those, but for me, I typically skip through those anyway. The push button is easy to use during play. It performs well in water, and there is no leakage. I think you would be able to hear it through a door on the high speed when not in use, but that should not be a problem since it will be pressed up against your body.

It is very easy to clean. I typically just wash it in soap and water since it is waterproof. If I am being lazy, I just use Eden's wipes to clean it. Then I just put it in my Eden tote. I would make sure to put it away right after you clean it, since if you leave it out, it does easily attract lint.

It was in a clear, plastic box with writing all over, making it far from discreet. Make sure you open it while alone!

It is not intimidating, but unfortunately, it does not work well with my body. It was a good step up for me, and I have hopes it will turn into a beautiful butterfly for me in the future instead of remaining an "eh" caterpillar.