I love the multiple speed settings to this Fairy Wand Massager. I also love the softness of the massager's head — it is very soft.

It works VERY well for both singles and couples. You can add different attachments to the wand for different uses, and that makes it great for both clitoral and vaginal play.

The Fairy Wand Massager's sound is not too discreet, but the noise can easily be masked by a movie or music playing in the background.

My fiancé would use it with other toys to tease me which heightens the excitement. When including another toy with the wand, I recommend using a simple vaginal vibrator with nothing extra attached.

The Fairy Wand Massager is very easy to clean; all you have to do is wipe it clean with a sex toy cleaner and a washcloth. You can easily clean it with a baby wipe as well.

There is no lube required when you use the Fairy Wand Massager for external play. If you choose to use the wand along with an attachment for internal stimulation, then I would suggest using a water-based lubricant so you won't dry out, no matter what happens.

When using the wand, I recommend that you let your lady guide you because she will know the right spot to place it each time, to make the moment even more special for the two of you. From personal experience, I have noticed that using the wand sometimes helps to relieve some of the pain you might feel while being penetrated by your significant other or another toy. It will also help him go deeper while he penetrates you.

I would also recommend letting him use the massager on you for a little teasing, it can help heighten the excitement as well as being a tease (depending on where he uses it).