After 30+ years of marriage, we decided to spice up our life with some "toys". This was the first one we bought and we chose it because it would stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot.

As a plus-size woman, I would not be able to use this toy by myself. My arms are simply too short to handle it well. However, using it with my partner was a blast for both of us. He enjoyed watching my face as the vibrations increased and I, well I just plain enjoyed it! Days later, I still think about how it felt and look forward to using it again.

I was always hesitant to consider adding toys to our relationship because I pictured them as being hard and inflexible and I thought any toys would feel alien and uncomfortable.
However, this felt natural (although small) when we used it. It is fairly flexible and adapted well to my body.

My favorite part of this toy's design is the bulb head. It was a perfect size for stimulation and was easy to grab hold of with my muscles.

I enjoyed the vibrations and the fact that there were different levels of vibration. The variety enhanced the experience as things progressed.

It wasn't until the second time we used this that we learned how to use the butterfly for maximum effect. I enjoyed the butterfly, however, it did not seem to be placed quite right for my full satisfaction. I believe this is because the Butterfly Kiss is too short for maximum benefit for a larger woman like me. Because the main shaft is not long enough, you have to hold it at an awkward angle and the antennae do not stimulate the proper areas.

If the shaft had an additional 2"-3" of length, full figured women like myself would probably enjoy it much more.

The vibrations are evenly spread throughout the shaft, so I do recommend it as a G-spot stimulator. At times it can be hard to control the vibration settings if you are not used to using it. It can be hard to find the button to change speeds during use.

Additionally, this item has too much drag to be used for external foreplay. I recommend it for internal use only.

This is your basic, traditional "insert here" vaginal sex toy. Great for beginners who don't need anything exotic.

If you don't need much length or super strong vibrations, this is a good basic toy to start with.

Made with TPR, this can be cleaned with warm water and soap. It doesn't seem to pick up much lint or have a strong odor, so you can probably store it just about anywhere.

The batteries are easy to change.