The Bendable You Too is an interesting vibrator. It is exactly the same as the You Too prostate massager, just comes in different colors. (This is something I wondered before I bought it.) It can be used personally by one person, male or female, or it can be used as a couple's massager with one end for one person and the other for their partner (which end is used on who is up to the couple.) There is one smooth, bulbous end and the other end is bulbous with a small tip on it.

It's flexible, so it can be bent in many different directions and has 7 settings that range from steady vibrations in different strengths to pulsing variations. It isn't cordless, so you have to work around the wire attached to the controller, but it wasn't a terrible inconvenience for me.

The package said it is waterproof, but I haven't tried it in water yet and I'm not sure if the wire/battery pack/controller is waterproof as well as the vibrator itself. I should hope that it is because it would be awfully difficult to use it in water given that they are attached.

It takes 2 AAA batteries. I would not consider this product to be travel friendly, given that in it's un-bent position, it was the length of my forearm, and it is also not wireless.

It's made of TPR, so it is somewhat smooth. It's not completely smooth though. There is a slightly grabby texture, but only very, very slightly. The TPR material gives almost no odor, and if you rub your finger across it, there's a little bit of catch. In other words, if you're going to insert this into the vagina or anus, use lube. It won't hurt if you don't, but it makes things a lot easier if you do.

Since TPR is more porous than silicone, you should definitely clean it after inserting it into any opening. I would not recommend alternating which end you use when using with a partner. (I.e. if you partner uses one end to stimulate his prostate, don't use that end yourself.) Putting a condom on the smaller end with the wire attached is not practical, as the wire would obstruct the condom. I wouldn't recommend trying to put condoms on either end, because the non-bulbous, flexible "neck" of the toy is very thin and would allow for a lot of loose space for the condom to move or come off. That does, unfortunately, make things a little difficult, which is another downside to this otherwise good toy,

Like I said before, this is meant to be used by either one person, or two people together. It is thin and flexible in the middle with two bulbous ends. One end having a small tip on it for added stimulation. The other end (the one without the tip) is attached to the wire, which is attached to the battery pack/controller.

The controller has a power button and a settings button. You push the power button to turn it on, upon which it will run at a low, steady vibration. When you want to change the settings, you simply push the settings button to cycle through the 7 modes.

It is about 8 3/4" long went un-bent. The circumference of each end is 3 1/2" and the diameter is 1 1/4".

The problem I had with it was I wanted to use it as a couple's massager but couldn't. I had heard that it could be used as one and that one end could be inserted into the vagina at the same time as the penis during p-in-v sex. I wanted to try that, but with the bulbous nubs on each end, it was simply too big for me to have both in at the same time. For women who like the extra girth, it might be something enjoyable (consider though, that you will be adding 3 3/4" worth of extra girth to your partner's existing size). When it comes to this, I think the smaller, smoother design of the We Vibe 3 would be more comfortable. I just couldn't get passed the bulbous ends on the You Too.

Also, because one end is attached to a wire, it is difficult to insert because the wire gets in the way.

The vibrations are mainly in the bulbous ends of the You Too. They range from low, medium, to strong steady vibes. There are four different pulsing patterns that range from quick, slow, to rising and falling. I prefer the steady vibes, but my fiance enjoyed the pulsing as well, even though he didn't want to use it to stimulate his prostate.

The vibrations are fairly quiet, but the higher the setting, the louder it tends to get. Sometimes I heard a slight rattling noise that I'm pretty sure was coming from the controller pack. Probably caused by the strong vibrations of the toy itself.

The controls were very, very simple, which I thought was a great thing. Just turn it on and push the cycle buttons to whatever setting you want.

The settings button is right above the power button, so sometimes it is easy to accidentally turn it off when you mean to change a setting (I did that a few times) but it is easy to just turn it back on.

When I'm done using this, I keep it in a toy bag. I also tend to fold it back into it's original U-shaped position. It's not as delicate as silicone, but I wouldn't risk keeping it stored next to other toys unless you put it in a toy bag or other kind of special storage bag.

Since the toy itself is flexible with no complicated shapes or holes, it's easy to clean. You can bend it to any shape you need to thoroughly clean it. Use mild soap and water to clean, or an antibacterial sex toy cleaner.

Water and oil-based lubes are safe to use with this product.

I was a little disappointed that I couldn't use it as a couple's massager like I wanted to. It was also a little too long for me. To be able to use both ends myself, I have to bend and flex it a little to get it into the right shape/position. The flexibility is a really good thing, I suppose, and I like how powerful the vibrations can actually get (I'm really into strong vibes), I just wish the design were more practical for simultaneous insertion with my partner's penis.

While my fiance didn't want to insert it for prostate stimulation, he still enjoyed the vibrations against his penis while the other end was stimulating me. I was glad he was able to experience it in some way even though we couldn't use it the way we originally thought.