I purchased this vibrator as my first venture into the world of sex toys, and sex in general. As a virgin I really wanted something non-threatening, and this fit the bill. The butterfly kiss gave me a great introduction to insertion, but unfortunately didn't feel any vibrations inside my vagina from the toy. That being said, I get great orgasms from the butterfly clitoral stimulator. I got my first orgasm with this toy, and wow, was it intense. Every orgasm with the butterfly kiss has been similar in intensity. Out of the toys I have, this one definitely is the most dependable in giving me fast (but not too fast) and intense orgasms.

The biggest drawbacks for me, besides the lack of vibrations and pressure with the g-spot bulb, are the noise and how quickly it burns through batteries. Because I use the butterfly kiss on the most intense of the three settings, building up from the least intense, I don't get more than five to ten sessions with the toy. I've switched to rechargeable batteries with this toy in order to stop going through so many batteries (2 AAA).

In regards to the noise, I often felt self-conscious in my dorm room, worried that my neighbors would hear me getting off. If noise is an issue, this is probably not the toy for you.

Lastly, because of the jelly-like texture of the butterfly kiss I find it incredibly necessary to lube up the bulb and the shaft before I use it. I also clean the butterfly kiss with a toy spray and lint-free towel after every use. It doesn't come with a storage bag, but I use a drawstring bag from a set of sheets I purchased to store it in. The jelly-like texture tends to attract fuzz and dust, so keeping it in a bag is helpful to keep it clean between uses.