When I first opened the package, I was pleasantly surprised with the size. We already have a 17-inch double-ended dildo (not vibrator) that works well for sharing, and I thought 12 inches might be a bit too small, but it’s fine, in my opinion. You just have to mind the position if you’re using it to connect one partner’s backside to the other partner’s frontside. Take a closer look, and it quickly becomes apparent that the O-Flexer is a high-quality product. From the velvety soft silicone material to the perfect firmness of the toy, to the vein and head detail, to the magnetic charging port, you can rest assured you are getting your money’s worth. The other reassuring aspect was that there was absolutely no odor to this toy when it came out of the package.

Once out of the box, I washed it thoroughly and took a spin through the functions. It’s hard to find any negatives about this product, but if I had to come up with one, it would be that the buttons are reversed. In other words, the button closest to the thicker end controls the vibrations on the thinner end and vice versa. A small detail that just takes a minute to get used to, not a big issue. The first setting is a low, wonderfully rumbly vibration that immediately gets your attention, followed by a medium and then a powerful, buzzy, high vibration. Those are then followed by the pattern vibrations, of which there are plenty of unique winners. I love the size of each end that begs you to start small and flip it over to kick things up a notch. Remember to start with a quality, water-based lube for this silicone toy, as silicone toys and silicone lube don’t play well together.

This toy is a winner. Particularly, I think, if you’re intended purpose is cooch to cooch. I don’t think you could use both ends on the same partner; it just doesn’t seem flexible enough. But that’s one thing I absolutely love about this toy, how rigid it is. Too many double Enders are so flexible that it becomes an issue, particularly during insertion, or worse, in the heat of the moment. The O-flexer certainly works from backdoor to cooch, but a few more inches of separation would be nice in this use for added peace of mind.

Clean up with the O-flexer is a breeze. We just run it under hot water, scrub it up really well with gentle soap, apply some toy cleaner and let it set for a couple of minutes, then give it a good rinse, and you’re all set. The head details are realistic enough but don’t trap anything in a way that’s difficult to remove.

For our first use with the O-Flexer, I had my wife lay on her back, and I lubed her and the toy up (don’t forget to use water-based lube). I slid the smaller end into her and hit the power button. When this toy first powers up, it sends a quick, strong vibration to let you know it’s on, I knew this, but my wife did not. She just about came off the bed when it powered up and followed it up with an “ooooooohhh!” Folks, insert slowly into your partner! It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and go too far with 12 inches of fun stick in your hand, which is what I did. I backed it out (a smidge) and then slowly cycled through the vibrations and let her moans guide me as to which ones were hitting the mark. After a couple of minutes, I couldn’t take it anymore and had to flip the toy end for end. She groaned as the larger head slid in. After a few more minutes, I cranked the vibes up to high, pulled it out, and went right for the clit. Almost immediately cum was gushing out of her!

I figured it was my turn to get in on the action, so I lubed up myself, spun around, and inserted the small end into my backdoor. I then backed up to her on all fours as she still lied on her back, and she put the large end into herself. I tightened up some key muscles and slowly started to work back and forth, and we were both moaning in no time. People, if you’ve never shared a toy with your partner, you need to give it a try. The feeling of closeness that you get is unbeatable, in my opinion. Anyway, this is where having only 12 inches of toy became an issue. She got concerned that my backside attacking from above was creating the potential for lube to drip down the toy and cause an “unsanitary” condition. No one wants to take unnecessary risk in the Backdoor to Vagina department, so we repositioned ourselves to both be up on our knees, cheek to cheek, as it were. This made all parties feel better, and it was game on. We went until she came again, and I was on the verge. She pulled her end out and turned around to focus on me. She pushed the toy deep, and on the high vibration, I really loved it. “Deeper” I said, wanting to push myself. She gave another gentle push, and it went all but the last 2 inches that she needed to hang onto the toy. “Oh my God,” she said. Meanwhile, I was somewhere on another planet enjoying deep sensations I’d never felt before. She pulled it back out just enough to fire up vibrations on both ends and went deep again. I forgot my own name for a minute. She reached around and grabbed my cock, and started stroking. It took all of about 15 seconds, and I was gushing like a fire hose. I just collapsed onto the bed and lay there convulsing with pleasure. Needless to say, I love this toy as much as she does.

Look, if you’re still considering getting the O-Flexer, just do yourself a favor and order it! This item is incredibly versatile, and I’m honestly considering purchasing a second, just to have as a backup in case something were to happen to our first one!

We just had this toy out again a couple of nights ago, and I love it more every time we use it. My wife loves taking the thicker end solo because of the size and the strong and varied vibrations. I love taking the thinner end solo as deep as I can handle. We love each taking an end while she strokes my cock, and I rub her clit until there is cum everywhere, and neither of us can move to do anything about it!

The O-Flexer makes the rotation quite regularly because there are so many ways to use it; we just never get bored with it. The vibrations are very powerful, and there are some great patterns to choose from. It’s easy to clean up with soap, water, and toy cleaner, and I feel like we charge it very little for as often as we use it. You will not be disappointed with this fantastic item!