I chose the Passion Mate as it was classified on the EdenFantasys website as a g-spot vibrator. I enjoy g-spot stimulation, therefore looked forward to trying it out.

It arrived in pretty bland packaging, which didn’t inspire much excitement, but by the same token, there wasn’t an excess, so not much to dispose of. I noticed two things immediately – the lack of instructions and the smell.

I know instructions aren’t strictly necessary because you can just open the thing up and play around to see how it works, but I just think it would be nice to have something to inform you on how to get the best out of the toy.

The smell I found a little off-putting. It wasn’t overwhelming, but it was pretty unpleasant; presumably this will lessen after a while. I think it’s just a downside to the material the toy is made from, unfortunately.

Anyway, after popping in two AA batteries, I was ready to go. I was impressed by the controls; simple and easy to use and not the sort you’ll end up nudging whilst playing with the vibrator. I found the shaft a little bigger than necessary; the end you insert is of a reasonable size, but it tapers out into quite a large base, so plenty of lube was needed.

After using the Passion Mate, I’d say I was pleased with its performance. It’s meant to be a g-spot vibrator, and it definitely does the job. In terms of stimulation, the vibrations were enjoyable but didn’t contribute to my g-spot orgasm; this was achieved by manipulation of the toy whilst I was using it internally. The power of the vibrations were very intense, which also makes this toy ideal for stimulating the vulva and clitoris and also using on a partner.

I’d definitely recommend this toy. For women who are lucky enough to be able to ejaculate, this toy is perfect to reach the spot and can also be used in other imaginative ways.