I can't really add to what others have said about the Hitachi Magic Wand. It is the preeminent pleasure producer, and has been for a long time. Things haven't changed much in its design - but why should it - if it ain't broke - don't fix it. Sure you can buy a cordless version in the Acuvibe|Acuvibe review, but the corded version never loses power - doesn't need batteries or recharging.

So why am I writing this review - more so to give the men out there some ideas - specifically on how I use it to please my wife. For starters, it is powerful and thus caution should be used. Turning it on and jamming it down on the clit won't get you the response you are looking for. Some people will put something between the massager and that which is being massaged. I like to put a little lube on my finger and then put the massager against my finger as I caress around her labia and clitoris. Doing this keeps it more personal and not so mechanical.

Once she is getting into it, I have developed another technique that my wife thinks is absolutely fabulous and is guaranteed to get her off. What I do is move around between her legs. I then put a little lube on the my middle finger and on the outsides of my ring and index finger. I then grab the ball end of the massager like you might grab a ball. I then gently insert my middle finger into her vagina while I place the outside of my ring and index finger on either side of her clitoris. The Magic Wand|Hitachi magic wand vibrator will then vibrate all three fingers. She prefers the higher setting. The great thing is you can really stimulate the g-spot, while also working over the clitoris.

The other nice thing about this technique is that it does not require direct contact of the massager to the more sensitive areas, and you can back off as needed. You can also grip the ball tighter to reduce the vibrations as necessary. My wife tends to get used to the vibration over time and ultimately is open to direct contact with the clitoris. This is easily accomplished because when she is getting close to orgasm, I can simply spread the two fingers apart, which opens the labia, allowing great access to the clit.

This is by far her favorite toy. The problem comes in that everything else pales in comparison. We also bought the g-spotter attachment - of which my wife affectionately calls it "Gonzo" as it is shaped like Gonzo's nose from the Muppets. However - I would definitely recommend the Gee Whiz|Gee Whiz review or Gee Whizzard|Gee Whizzard review attachments as they are softer, more flexible, and provide better clitoral stimulation.

In addition, if you try the above technique, I find that due the amount of stimulation taking place and the desire to not interrupt the process, I find lube works better than saliva - saliva disappears after awhile and with all that friction you don't want things to get to irritated.

I followed my technique again last night resulting in another rave review. I tried to pay attention to how the massager felt in my hand and whether or not it bothered me. Personally speaking it didn't bother me, irritate me, or otherwise become uncomfortable. i just ordered the Acuvibe massager for more flexibility so I hope it works just as well. Watch for my review regarding it.