My husband and I wanted to try something new to heighten both of our sexual pleasure. I’m plus size, but was able to wear this toy comfortably. The “handle” side slides into the vagina and rests against the pubic bone. When the vibrator is turned on, the wearer feels the strongest of the vibrations, which felt amazing to me. My husband felt light vibrations through the shaft. Since we are a heterosexual couple, I used this on him anally. It took time for us to build up to get past rimming with the toy. As of now, he is comfortable with a few inches inserted with slow thrusts. As for safety, we used a lot of lubricant. Water-based is best, but if you can find silicone safe lubes that last longer, use them with this toy. No lube equals dryness, pain, and even tears to the anus. Nobody wants that!

This toy isn’t just meant for straight couples. A lesbian couple, any couple for that matter (thinking outside the box here) could use this toy. Be imaginative and have fun!

This toy is a strapless strap-on, so there is zero chance of “losing” it in the booty. But remember, use a condom if you plan on sharing this toy, or any toys. Wash them thoroughly with mild soap and warm water before and after every use.

This strapless strap-on toy is smooth in texture. The head of the toy is slightly “bead-like” segmented in two parts. The shaft itself does not get too big. In fact, it’s perfectly sized for first-timers. The girth is quite small, so you won’t stretch much anally.

The toy had no scent to me when I opened the package. I usually find toys have a light, somewhat sweet smell. The silicone material is what makes it so smooth. To me, it’s silky soft.

The design of this toy is great. It worked perfectly for my husband and myself. We were curious as to what it would be like to switch roles during sex, and this made it absolutely perfect. The size is not scary. In fact, it can sit in your hand. Girth wise, it’s under four inches. As for discreetness, we don’t travel much, so that would be to your discretion to make that decision. The vibrations are not very loud, though. You could get away with it on the noise level.

The best thing about this toy is that no harness is needed. It is meant to be inserted into the vagina and held in place behind the pubic bone while using it on your partner. I don’t feel there is anything lacking in this strapless strap-on since it is meant as a beginner's toy.

For the care of this toy, be sure to wash it (without the vibrating bullet) in warm water with a mild soap or use a quality toy cleaner. Dry the toy with a lint-free cloth and store in a satin bag if you have one. If not, you can wrap it in a dry lint-free cloth.

When using lubes, this silicone toy is best used with a lube that won’t break down the toy’s material. Water-based is great, but there are others that are silicone safe. Thoroughly research your toy’s materials before using just any lube. Some silicone toys can be used with silicone-based lube, but only because of the way the toy is made. I’ve found the softer (less rigid) the toy, the less compatible.