I had high hopes since I've been told good things about the butterfly. Perhaps the biggest compliment I can give it is that it is really cute. Cute, however, is not the key to a good sex toy.

The first thing that bugged me was how difficult it was to figure out the straps. I ended up having to call in backup from my husband to get the straps to hook up properly. After getting it hooked up, I turned it on and felt pretty much nothing. The vibrations are minimal and the jelly that surrounds it diminishes any strength it might have had. I've tried this thing multiple times and have yet to orgasm once. In fact, it feels more annoying than pleasurable. I would get irritated with it after a while and give up. I might give it one or two more tries and then it will be banished to the drawer of sex toys that never get used.

It's also pretty loud. I'm sure my husband could hear the vibrations through the bathroom door. He probably heard my frustrated sighs as well.

My husband asked me yesterday why I don't use my butterfly and I got frustrated just thinking about it. Possibly the most sexually frustrating toy I own. Total disappointment. I'm extra disappointed because I had been eyeing these up for a while and thought it would be something fun to use around the house or for solo play. I love bullets, so I thought this would be a double win.

The only way I could recommend this would be someone who can orgasm from looking at sex toys or by the lowest possible range of vibrations. Sadly, that's not me. Maybe I'm doing something wrong, but I kind of doubt it. I orgasm pretty easily, so if something doesn't get me off, it speaks volumes.