When I received my Debonair Realistic vibrator in the mail, I was initially unimpressed by its appearance. With a short, stubby dildo atop the vibrator control, I was unsure of how this toy was going to satisfy me. Its dimensions seemed slightly lacking when I actually held it in my hand, contemplating my approach. However, it did boast a six speed vibrating control, which intrigued me. I have always been a fan of the multi-speed vibrators. I decided to give the Debonair a chance.

Home alone one night, it was the perfect opportunity to test my new vibrator. I slowly slid under the covers with my new toy and a bottle of Eros Body Glide. After applying a bit of lube, I gradually inserted the Debonair. While the size of the dildo was on the smaller side, it was still able to reach my G-spot.

I turned the controls to the first speed. The intensity of the vibration was a little weaker than what I was accustomed to. It was almost as if the battery was dying, like it was itching to work at its full potential but was hindered. I slowly scanned through the six different speeds, finally settling on the last: escalating.

While the Debonair did tickle my G-spot, it lacked the strength needed to bring me to orgasm. The low intensity of the vibrations had me anticipating something stronger with a bit more variety than what I was receiving; my body was aching for orgasm as the Debonair merely teased me.

Unfulfilled, and becoming increasingly frustrated, I finally decided to use my 10 speed silver bullet to amplify the experience. I was surprised at how much stronger the vibration of the small bullet was in comparison to the dildo. By concurrently using the two, I was able to quickly bring myself to orgasm. Overall, I was very disappointed in the Debonair by itself, although it did provide a nice accompaniment to my own bullet.

I decided to give the Debonair one more chance; although this time I included my partner. With the lights turned down and a soft candle flickering in the background, my partner slowly traced the vibrating dildo down the curves of my body. As he carefully inserted the Debonair, he used his tongue to simultaneously tease me. The contrast between his tongue licking my clit and the methodic way in which he continuously penetrated me was amazing. As he worked both the controls and his mouth, I was able to effortlessly come to orgasm. The Debonair definitely added to this intimate experience, yet I felt the only thing that kept it alive was the masterful cunnilingus from my partner.

In general, I was very disappointed in the Debonair Realistic vibrator. I did not find it realistic at all. Upon closer inspection I found the 'realistic' penis part was actually just a silicone covering for a thin metal rod that served as the vibrator. I wouldn't recommend this product to anyone looking for a satisfying toy. Used in conjunction with another sex toy or partner was the only thing that salvaged the experience of the Debonair for me. I would advise anyone to spend a little extra money and get a toy that will fulfill their needs on its own.