I used this with my girlfriend. This toy adjusts to anybody, I'm bigger, and she’s small, and this toy works perfectly for both of us; the clit stimulator hits the perfect spot on both of us. I love the different vibration settings, and the material is great and easy to clean; it’s a little hard to clean just because of the adjustable clit stimulator, but it's totally worth it. My girlfriend loves to start at the highest vibration setting, and I like to start at the second lowest. This is perfect for use on many bodies and with many different preferences.