I bought this toy about a year and a half ago, but only used it for 8 months. During its reign as my “go-to-toy”, the Decadent Indulgence 3|Decadent indulgence 3 was indeed decadent and never left me unsatisfied. I mostly used it alone, but my lovely boyfriend enjoyed watching intently as he pleasured himself as well. The multitude of speeds and patterns of the vibrations provide the ability to mix it up. I liked using the different patterns to get me really worked up before turning it all the way up on straight vibration to send me to the stars. The elephant-shaped clit stimulator is weird at first because it’s all cutesy, but after I got over that, it was great. I imagine the trunk is designed for clit tickling, but I found that placing it so that my clit was between the little feet gave the best result. The ears stimulate the labia as well.

The rotating head and spinning beads weren’t that impressive for me personally, so I usually kept that feature off. The size of the shaft is decent enough, and probably great for a beginner or someone who isn't into a lot of girth. Anyone that is into the spinning beads will enjoy the fact that they won’t jam, no matter how hard you squeeze those PC muscles!

The Decadent Indulgence 3 is just fine to look at, doesn’t have much of a smell, but is pretty damn loud. I wouldn’t feel comfortable using it if I needed to be discreet. I live alone, so it’s not an issue personally. The TPR material is still a bit porous, so it’s important to keep clean using warm water and a sex toy cleaner or mild soap.

Now, the reason it only lasted 8 months is the craftsmanship. After I began to notice rust coming through the phthalates-free TPR material from the metal rod inside the shaft, I got the heebie-jeebies. For the luxury toy price, it would be nice to still be able to use it! I would recommend keeping it away from excessive moisture (steam, water) and use a condom over it.

All in all, the amount of pleasure I received was well worth the money. I just wish it had lasted longer.