I bought this initially for play with my boyfriend at the time, I was severely disappointed. Whereas the design looks rather cute, it was WAY too bulky to allow for dual simulation. It is definitely not usable with vaginal penetration toys or with a partner that's interested in penetrating you, while this is in place.

The vibration was okay, a little weak for my specific preferences. However, the toy made very little noise while using, which is definitely a plus if you live in a household with others and you don't want them to know what you are doing.

If you are looking for something to wear out and about this is not what you are looking. Not wearable beneath clothes unless you like to walk like John Wayne and wear very BAGGY pants. Also, it didn't stay put, and I had to constantly readjust it.

Also, this tends to be a VERY hands on hands free toy. I had to help it out A LOT.

I did try to use this with a female partner, I had it strapped on while performing oral sex on her and it really become more troublesome than helpful. The straps had to constantly be pulled up the stimulation just wasn't there and I ended up taking it off because it just wasn't hitting the spot, and was causing more of a pain and time leech making me and my partner aggravated.

It is made from Jelly, so you can use Silicone or water based lubricants. However, it is not able to be sterilized like glass or silicone, and it has a very unusual shape that can easily hide bacteria. Not recommended for sharing. You need to use Warm water and preferably an anti bacterial toy cleaner with it. Mild soap is also usable.