So let me start off by saying, the pictures of this set are ridiculously photoshopped. What you get will look similar to this, but not like it at all. Even though this is a cheaper version of what is shown, this is still a pretty cute set for the price. This is basically some cheap mesh with long ribbon, but it does look and fit well on me.

I usually wear a size small and the fit was perfect. It should be fine for someone who wears medium or large also. There is no ruffle around the trim like is shown in the picture, it actually doesn't look so great up close, just cheap. The ribbon is what saves this outfit. I love the long ribbons that can be wrapped around your waist. The halter and side ties on the bottom are made of the same shiny black ribbon. It is very comfortable too and feels like nothing is on. The only bad thing about that is you don't want to wear this if you will be moving around a lot in it. The ribbon will start to fall and it may become too loose.

This would be a great outfit for bdsm play or couple foreplay. People really seem to like bottoms that untie at the sides. I would not wear this for anything other than play or for photos. As for washing it, I don't remember how it says to wash it, but I would do it by hand. I think the fabric and the way it is made would be too delicate to throw in the wash. The ribbons might not look as smooth afterwards. I love this set overall, yet it is not one of my favorites. It is something I will keep and wear every now and then.