Lubes are an important ingredient to a good sexual experience that are all too often over-looked. When my husband and I switched to using condoms after I went off birth control pills, we discovered that our lube of choice, coconut oil, was no longer a viable option due to its incompatibility with latex. As our frustration with water-based lubes mounted, we decided to try a silicone lubricant. Having had a great experience with Sliquid Swirl, Sliquid's flavored lube, Sliquid Silver seemed like a great place to start some experimenting.

I had heard a lot about silicone lubes—that they are long lasting, great for use in water, and that they feel more natural than water-based lubes, which can dry out and get sticky. But perhaps my expectations for Sliquid Silver were too high. It worked adequately, didn't seem to dry out too quickly, and was very comfortable, but it did not deliver the outstanding results I expected. Also, I'm not too keen on the fact that silicone lubes tend to stain fabrics. Lets face it—spills and leaks are part of sex, I'd just rather not have my sheets and blankets ruined in the process. Furthermore, I discovered that the bottle tends to leak around the cap, requiring that it be kept upright. The lube is also much runnier than water-based lubes, making it more difficult to apply if you are concerned about stains and spills. Finally, this lube isn't compatible with my silicone toys. While I realize I shouldn't use them together, I'm wondering how long after using the silicone lube for intercourse I need to wait to use my silicone toys. The next morning? 24 hours? After a shower? Nevertheless, this lube works adequately. I would not say it is fantastic, but it does the job.

I'm hoping that a chance to use the lube in water will change my mind. Unfortunately, our shower barely has enough room for one person, so it looks like I won't get a chance to try this lubes staying power in a sexy shower scene anytime soon. My husband, however, has enjoyed using the lube, especially given that there a less time-outs for reapplication. I think anyone would be pleased with this lube, provided their expectations aren't unrealistic.