I have to admit, I like putting things in my ass. Historically, my favorite place to do this has been in the shower. There are primarily two reasons for this. First, people usually leave me alone while I am in the shower. Second, clean up is pretty easy because the water is already running. When I first started with anal play I knew very little about sex toys or lubricants. After I began learning more about these things I was introduced to silicone toys and a manufacturer called Tantus. From their website I learned that there is a very good type of lubricant that stays slick even in the presence of water. I was intrigued by the words of Metis Black, President of Tantus. She sang the praises of silicone as a lubricant which made me very anxious to get my hands on some or more accurately, get some on my hands. I researched like crazy for a little while and tried to learn as much as I could about it.

Within a few days, I had purchased and tested my first silicone lube. It was a great experience, but as with all good things, eventually they must come to an end, so when my supply became depleted, I needed to get more silicone lube. Since I always like to try new things, I didn’t go back to the same lube; instead I selected System JO’s Personal Anal Lubricant.

After having some experience with it now, I would have to say that I would probably select something different next time. Don’t get me wrong, this is a decent lube. It just isn’t in the upper echelon of silicone lubes. Plus, it is actually more expensive than the lube I had before and I don’t like it as well.

Personal Anal Lubricant does all the things that silicone lubes are supposed to do. It stays slick even in the presence of water and it doesn’t gum up even after being used for a while. My biggest complaint with it is that it is not quite as thick as I would like for anal play. Plus, since it is runnier it is more likely to make a mess and get on my linens if I happen to be using it on the bed. By the way, silicone lube isn’t a great thing to have to wash off your sheets. Also, it doesn’t stay where I put it as much as other lubes. I guess what all of this means is that I will work my way through this bottle and look forward to trying something new next time. Maybe I’ll use this one to shave to help it go away faster or, better yet, I’ll let my kids turn my shower into a slip and slide again.

I should let you know that my partner was pretty impressed with how this felt during vaginal sex. She said that its consistency actually felt more natural than our other silicone lube because it was not as thick. I found this to be an interesting observation and wanted to note it here to let people know that it isn’t a bad lube. Now, given that the lube is being billed as anal lubricant|System JO personal anal lubricant and it isn’t really that good for anal sex is not very good, but if you want a silicone lube that feels natural for vaginal sex, than this might be right up your alley.