My husband fractured his penis about 4 years ago, and after healing completely is left with a refraction period (amount of time until next erection can be reached) of about 4 hours. No big deal right? When paired with my husband’s pre-mature ejaculation it becomes a VERY big deal. Sex can be really frustrating because of this. There is a lot of starting and stopping to try to prevent him from finishing before he wants to. We have tried cock rings|Non-vibrating cock ring to experiment with, and while they help, they only help provide us an extra 2 minutes or so. While I don’t care if I have to finish up on my own, this is a huge blow to my husband’s ego and at times he has avoided sex because of it.

When I discovered there are creams|Desensitizing creams that can delay ejaculation, I was both elated and skeptical. I was afraid that something that numbed my husband’s penis would make it impossible for him to even enjoy sex. I looked through reviews and picked out the Not Yet gel by Doc Johnson|Gel by Doc Johnson.

We tried it the same night we received it and have used it every time we have had sex since then. Both my husband and I were completely blown away by how well this half ounce tube of gel works. It allowed my husband to have much greater control over his climax without preventing him from reaching it. As per instructions you are supposed to rub a small amount onto the penis and wait ten minutes before contact. When I opened the tube I noticed that it smelled a lot like cherry cough syrup, but it wasn’t overwhelming at all. The consistency is pretty thick which allows for better control of amount and prevents it from dripping. I used just enough to spread over his entire shaft; then we waited.

After the ten minutes were up we moved from gentle foreplay to intercourse. For the first time in 4 years my husband was actually able to thrust vigorously without stopping for over five minutes. We continued having sex for over 20 minutes. We did need to slow down a couple times, but never had to stop. My husband told me that while he did feel numbed a little bit, it was still very pleasurable for him. His penis was as hard as when he uses a cock ring, which of course felt great for me. It didn’t take long before I finished the first time, and the second time followed shortly. Once my husband decided he wanted to climax it was easy for him to do so. I could really feel the cum squirting out with more power than is typical, and he reported to me that it felt incredibly strong.

I was not numbed by this at all and did not notice any mess. It absorbed into his skin leaving nothing behind. We were very impressed by this product and would recommend it to anyone looking for a longer lasting erection.

An interesting thing has happened during the use of this product. I would have never expected it, but my husband has actually become less and less dependent on numbing products. This may not be the case with everyone, but the use of this gel has actually made it easier for him to learn how to hold off ejaculation. I thought we would be purchasing this product for as long as he is able to achieve an erection, but he actually doesn't even need it at all anymore. Before using this gel, sex was often frustrating for him because of the frequent stopping to prevent orgasm. He felt like he was ruining it for me by stopping every few thrusts. The Not Yet Gel numbed his penis enough to make controlling the ejaculation easier for him. As time went on, he began using less and less of the product, until he no longer needed to use it at all. We only ever bought one tube, and that was enough for him. I'm not sure if the outcome is due to the gel helping make his "training" easier, or if it was the confidence boost that it gave to him, or both. My husband went from not being able to thrust more than a minute or two without ejaculating, to being able to hold off for nearly 30 minutes, sometimes longer. He tells me that he is able to enjoy sex much more than he used to be able to, because the worrying and stress is out of the way. There was no permanent numbing of his penis, as he reports that the sensations he feels from penile stimulation are as strong as they ever were. We will not be buying anymore of this product. Thanks to this little tube of miracle gel, he no longer needs help with delaying his orgasm. We are both very satisfied with this product.