I order Not Yet Gel about a month ago, so my boyfriend and I tried it out. When my boyfriend put it on his penis he said he felt like it lessened the feeling in his penis--almost numbing. So we give it a go and right away it had my vagina feeling like it was burning and itching. So we stop and it completely f----- up the moment for us. The gel has been sitting in the drawer since. I don't know if I want to give it to my sister and her boyfriend to try, or just put in the trash. So I did try it one more time for good measure because I don't trust my boyfriend's direction reading. It still did not work. My boyfriend came as quick as always and I still was a little uncomfortable. Another thing---the cardboard box it comes in tells you to wash it off as soon as you finish your business, too.

The back of the tube says "A flavored non-toxic gel specially formulated as a topical desensitizer. For external use only."

So reading for "external use only" had me questioning the product right away because even if there is a time period of waiting, that made me think it still will have an effect on my body or skin.

Directions for use: To produce a temporary slight numbing effect over desired area, apply and gently massage into skin ten minutes before contact.

Not Yet Gel comes in a little tube that looks like lip gloss which is 1/2 oz. It has 7.5% benzocaine in it. Benzocaine is a local anesthetic commonly used as a topical pain reliever, or in cough drops. It is the active ingredient in many over-the-counter anesthetic ointments. It is water based. It is also Arginine Free. Arginine is an amino acid.

For myself, I will not buy anything like this again because my body has a reaction to these things. I need a new alternative. But it did seem like a good idea and product when I ordered it---but it is not for me. Maybe it will work well for someone else.