I didn't realize that this product said "For Men" on it until it got here; but I still tried it anyway as a gift to my husband since he's been wanting to try anal, though I'm not into it. This product is not a lube; but, for us, it also worked well as lube. The spray is intended to relax the anus instead of numbing it, which could cause tearing. And that's exactly what it does. It does take a few minutes, so if you're sensitive, I would suggest waiting. It has a warming sensation that I did enjoy, and it made the experience more tolerable for me.

It does have a slight smell to it, but it's not a bad smell to me. It smells like ginger, but I think it's intended to smell like the lemongrass and aloe that's in it. We didn't use it on any other orifices because it says not to. But some of it got on my back and thighs and the warmth felt really good there, too. So even if you don't like anal, you could use it as a sensual spray for foreplay on other parts of your body.

I recommend this spray to anyone wanting to enhance their anal experience. I don't like anal, but it even made me almost enjoy the time because of the sensation it gave me. My husband, on the other hand, didn't like the warming feeling it gave him on his penis. I think it may have "relaxed" it as well, but it's hard to tell if that was why, or if it was just because he didn't like the warmth.

This product is completely herbal and does not contain benzocaine or lidocaine. It does contain clove, goji berry, aloe, and lemongrass. It's latex-friendly and is not recommended for people with STD's, as it could cause serious breakouts and irritation.

We've used this spray a few times since Valentine's day, and it seems to be even better than the first time. Maybe it's because I'm becoming more open to anal sex. But every time we use it, it still feels like it did the first time. I have even become the one suggesting that we use it on certain nights. My husband still doesn't like the numbing effect it has on him, but is never going to turn down the opportunity to put it in my butt!