This is another item that stays by the bed. The kids think it is my reading pillow. (And I do use it for that also: just tuck it behind your regular pillow and it props you up to a nice reading position.) We actually do not use it for sex that often, but when we do it does its job with flying colors. We use it for those nights when you want to get a little deeper with your penetration. Our favorite use is with her on her stomach with the pillow propping everything up nicely in the air. It also brings everything to the right angle when I am standing by the bed and she is lying on her back at the edge of the bed. I am sure that with the ramp/wedge combo we could find some new positions that would become favorites.

The pillow itself is really well made. The foam insert is a good mix of firmness and give. The cover is a soft velour like material that feels good against the naked body. The cover is easy to get off and wash when the need arises. (Hint: pair this with the Fascinator Throe. Cover the wedge with the throw, to make cleaning easier. I find it is much simpler to toss the blanket in the wash, instead of dismantling the cover and insert.)

If you are into pegging at all, this does bring the male bum up to a nice height and angle. Both on your stomach and back.

My only negative comment is that I would like them to also make a narrow one. This model sticks out a bit on either side of the hip. It does tend get in the way of some straddling positions (Picture her with tush in the air and the male's legs on either side of the hips). For these times a folded pillow works better. However, I would love to have a wedge that is half the width of the current model. I have heard that the heart-shaped one is better for straddling, but have not yet had the chance to add one to the collection.

This is a great gift for those lovers that like sex, but are not really that into traditional sex toys. It simply says that you would like to spend some quality time with your partner. This was one of the first "toys" that my partner really embraced into the routine. While we do not use it as often as the Liberator Throe, we do keep it nearby in case the mood strikes.