I reviewed the spreader bar hoping it would bring some real exciting fun. I still can't figure out how to use this thing. I am very disappointed, because it is just not what I expected. My boyfriend and I tried using it, but we just are totally clueless to what the big deal of this spreader bar is.

We tried on my thighs and it really wasn't the fantasy we wanted. We also tried on my ankles and there was just no fun there either. We also tried behind my head and there wasn't much fun there either. He did get to tickle me though, and I couldn't do much about that. But the big idea behind this bar is, well, I'm not too sure?


So, this bar is metal and we tried to tighten the wrist chain where the straps go, but we were unable to because it would have broken. I'm still trying to come up with a method of to how to get naughty with this toy. For once, I am completely clueless. But I do have one suggestion to the manufacturer, please come up with a how to use this toy handbook, because it is no fun.

The straps are velcro, which is pretty tough; that was an added bonus. I put this spreader bar on my boyfriend and he liked the fact that it was on his hands so I could have my way with him. That is probably the most fun I have ever had with this spreader bar. To me, I thought it would be exciting to try in my relationship. Hey a little freak in your love life is always an added bonus. But I wouldn't recommend using this product unless you really know what you are going to do with this spreader bar. So please, if anyone has tried this spreader bar let me know of how you have used it.