I bought this beauty from a friend. This is a good starter spreader bar and allows you to experiment in what you like, what you want and allows you to figure out your next restraint toy.

First thing, the cuffs are comfortable. You can really use your imagination with this and my husband likes it because he has ultimate control. You can use it as just a wrist restraint pinned behind your back, a little uncomfortable using with a hog tie, but if you are limber, you will have no problems. My husband loves the fact that with one hand he can put you anywhere he likes and you can't do a thing about it. Great for ultimate penetration positioning. A little uncomfortable when using while on your knees with your arms between your legs, but in most circumstances that isn't the point of it all. I rather enjoyed this product to its full potential.

I have used them on my husband while he enjoys anal play, it really increases intensity for him and excitement. When coupling this product with blindfolds and/or flogging/whipping/tickling/spanking, ultimate and endless pleasure is achievable.

I have found though that we are ready to expand our experience to something longer. I am a plus size woman and the bar being so short and not adjustable really cuts the experience short and lacks further pleasure ability. But I might be being too judgmental here because it really does do what you want and need.

It cleans easily, machine washable, but don't put it in the dryer. Let it air dry. The only thing that would make this toy better, would be if it were adjustable, came in other colors such as red or fuchsia, and possible removable cuffs because it would really make a good spanking toy as well.