I was a little skeptical about Tantric lovers kit at first. “Why?” You ask. Well, simply because my husband is not an oily kinda guy. He prefers ‘au naturale’ as opposed to any form of synthetic stimulation, or yes, even lubrication. Now, in his defense, I am a pretty well lubricated woman, so I don't need a lot of help. This is where it comes down to want over need. And I did not know how much I wanted this kit until it was used on me! Let me break it down by each product that comes in the kit.

First (this is in no specific order, just my preference); there is the Intimate Touch Sensual Spice Oil. This stimulates the last sense you would expect; smell!! It is a sensual touch oil, but it would be the same as using baby oil if it wasn't for the smell. My husband used this for a very sensual massage, and while his touch was very therapeutic, it was the smell of the spices that sent me into a very warm and hazy state of mind. It has such a calming effect that we will use it even when we are too tired for anything else. I have never slept better than on the nights where the Sensual Spice Oil is used for a massage.

Second is the Intimate Touch Stimulateuevcing Lubricant. Now, I have always maintained that I cannot use anything that heightens an orgasm because then I would be dead!! I was wrong obviously, but I was not far off. I would suggest that a person use this product in moderation because a little can go a very long way. When we used it my head was spinning for at least an hour, and that was after we were done. It heightened the sensations given off by the nerve endings in the vagina. For instance, when a normal orgasm would subside, this kept the waves coming and coming, so to speak!!

Last is the Strawberry Cheesecake Edible Warming Oil. I did not get this used on me so much as I used it on him. Let me tell you, it definitely makes the process of a submissive woman making love to her man much easier. Just get on top, face to face of course, pour and lick it up. Girls, let me tell you he loved it. Being aggressive is not my thing by far, but I did find less aversion to being the aggressor when I actually had something purposeful to do. Let’s not forget that it tastes really good too. So it makes oral sex so much more fun!!