I bought this toy about two years ago and it has maintained a spot, plugged in, beside my bed ever since. It is my go-to toy for almost any type of self-release and is a great favorite of my partners. I prefer the high setting since my anatomy doesn't allow for direct contact. However, for those women can put it directly on their clits, be careful as this baby is intense.

My current favorite thing to do is get my inflatable butt plug, slide it in, and pump it up a few times. All that pressure inside me pushes my clit up and makes it so much more sensitive. A couple minutes with the wand and I can explode all over the place and leave myself thoroughly relaxed.

One of the few cons to this toy is that it is extremely loud, so it is not something one would want to use if trying to be discreet. But if you're not worried about discretion, turn it on and let yourself feel. The necessity to be near an electrical outlet can also be a downside but extension cords will alleviate that. This unfortunately isn't a toy you could use in the car or outside.

My boyfriend's favorite thing to do with it is tie me down to the bed, completely spread my legs, and push it on my clit until I beg him to stop or just until I cum repeatedly. The Hitachi wand should be an integral part of any BDSM collection as it truly can push boundaries. However, the wonderful thing about it is that it can also a sensual and gentle toy.

This toy truly did change my life and I know I will always keep one in my collection. I'm looking forward to trying some of the attachments that are made for it.