I was pleased to find that the generous 8 oz bottle of Lifemate Magnet spritzer|Lifemate magnet spritzer is tinted blue to maintain the integrity of the essential oils. Since the bottle lacks specific directions for use, I just spritzed it on my hair, underarms and pelvis to allow it to mingle with my naturally produced pheromones. It has a pleasing, slightly herbal scent that wouldn't compete with compatibly scented body products or perfume.

I also tried stepping into a mist of spritzer after showering. The scent is pleasant and subtle on a freshly showered body. I liked the mild, soft feeling of the spray on my damp skin. This product could easily be used to refresh water-based lube, scent lingerie, bedding or toys, or mix with hair styling products. It would also work well as a tool for sex magic such as a pre-date ritual, a charm or a toy bag blessing.

Lifemate spritzer does seem to have aphrodisiac and antidepressant effects. I enjoyed some of the best solo sex that I've had in a very long time a few hours after applying it. It has made me very happy within a half-hour after each use. That effect alone might make me more outgoing and attractive to my ideal life mate. Using the spritzer prompted me to consider my grooming ritual, clothing choices, and destinations with an eye toward encountering my ideal life mate. Finally, it prompted the question "Who is my ideal life mate?" I wouldn't want to attract him and then fail to recognize him.

I've planned a ritual to attract him that includes meditation, considering his qualities, dedicating new items, grooming to attract him and self-appreciation. The spritzer plays a prominent role in each aspect of my ritual.

It hasn't attracted my life mate yet, but I wouldn't be surprised if it does soon.

I have been happily spritzing all month. I do want to acknowledge that the bottle does have specific directions for use, but they just indicate that the product is meant to be sprayed on the body, which I deduced from its name.