The Giving and Getting Amazing Fellatio Kit, from the Zero Tolerance line by Evolved Novelties, includes a deck of cards that have 52 oral sex tips, a non-vibrating cock ring, an oral sex candy spray, the Oral Sex Buddy, and a DVD guide to oral sex. The products can be used simultaneously or they can be used separately.

The kit would be perfect for beginners who are interested in learning about fellatio and how to give it, or those who want to brush up on their fellatio giving skills. The more advanced fellatio giver can also use the kit, though a few products may not be as useful for you.

While the DVD has a female giving oral sex to a male, the kit can be used by any gender that gives fellatio. The intended purpose of the products is to give amazing fellatio, but products like the oral sex spray can be used for other purposes, such as spraying on your partner’s body (regardless of gender) and licking it off or performing cunnilingus. The Oral Sex Buddy can be used for female masturbation or teasing your own or your partner’s body. The sleeve to the Buddy can be used on the finger for non-vibrating stimulation or with the bullet for vibrating sensations.

The cock ring is TPR and has no scent or taste to it. The cock ring is all black in colour and is quite stretchy. The material is smooth with no textures except for the seam lines. There are two seam lines: one around the outer part of the ring and one on the inside.

The Oral Sex Buddy is sleeve is made of TPR and the bullet is ABS (plastic). There is a faint rubbery smell to the sleeve but it’s very light and not intolerable. There is no taste to the sleeve, and the bullet has no scent or taste. The sleeve has a nubbed texture on the outer area of the cylinder shape. There is a fin that comes off each side of the sleeve, which is smooth and flexible. The sleeve is stretchy and the material has a bit of stickiness to it. Lint and pet hair sticks to the material very easily. The sleeve has a lot of drag when running it across the skin but is easily remedied with a bit of lubricant. Both the cock ring and Buddy are compatible with either silicone or water based lubricants.

The candy spray is water-based, runny, non-sticky, and leaves no residue on the skin. The spray is condom and toy safe and does not stain. It’s clear in colour. The ingredients as listed on the bottle are as follows: Glycerin, Purified Water (Aqua), Flavor, Sodium Benzoate, Pottasium Sorbate, and Citric Acid. With the spray having glycerin as an ingredient, the spray should not be used internally if you are prone to yeast infection.

The spray has a delicious smell to it. The scent is comparable to a lifesaver candy. The taste is not comparable to a candy at all. It has a very chemical taste to it and leaves a terrible aftertaste in the mouth.

The instructional deck of cards is comparable in size to a regular deck of playing cards. Each card has a large printed tip on it. The 52 cards are packed comfortably in the cardboard box they arrived in and are small enough to fit into your purse/bag to travel with.

The candy spray is in a 2 oz. plastic spray bottle with a plastic lid. The bottle sits upright and does not leak. The included cock ring has a diameter a little less than 2 inches when unstretched. The diameter is 5 inches when stretched fully. The Oral Sex Buddy bullet is 2 1/2 inches in length and has a 2 1/4 inch circumference. The sleeve that slips over the bullet is 1 3/4 inches in length and 1 3/4 inches wide.

The DVD is a little over 51 minutes long. The DVD has a few options on the opening page: “Play All”, “Interview”, “Techniques”, and an option to have the audio instructions on or off. The interview is with the couple that demonstrates the oral sex techniques. When you select “play all”, you’ll be watching every technique done by the couple, one after the other. If you choose “techniques” at the main menu, you’ll be met with a list of techniques that you can choose from if you’d prefer to watch only one or a few.

The option for having the audio instructions allows the watcher to choose whether or not they want to just watch the couple play or if they want to hear the over voice explaining each thing that the couple is doing. Without the instructions, the DVD runs like a porn video.

The instructional cards are not playing cards. Each card has a tip for giving amazing fellatio on it. While you cannot play a regular card game with the cards, you could turn the cards into a game with your partner. With the cards spread across a table, have your partner choose a designated amount of cards before you perform fellatio. Whichever tips your partner chooses, you must put the tip into practice during the act. Or, you could have your partner choose a few cards on a designated day, and practice the tips they had chosen throughout the week. If you’d prefer to not turn the cards into a game, the cards can be read alone, at your own pace.

The Oral Sex Buddy requires 3x LR44 batteries, which are included. To activate the vibrations in the bullet, you’ll need to remove the plastic piece that sits in the battery compartment. Unscrewing the cap at the bottom of the bullet can access the battery compartment. There is a plastic O-ring to the bullets battery compartment making it a waterproof toy. The cap must be closed tightly before submerging the toy into water to ensure there is no leakage into the compartment.

At the bottom of the bullet (at the bottom of the cap), there is a single button, which controls the vibrations. To turn the bullet on, press this button once. The bullet has a variety of settings that you can cycle through by pressing the button to get to the next setting. The settings are as follows:

1. constant vibration, low speed
2. constant vibration, medium speed
3. constant vibration, high speed.
4. long pulses
5. escalating from low to high, then low again and repeats
6. medium and long pulses
7. escalating from low to high and repeats.

To turn the vibrations off, hold the button down for 4 seconds. When the bullet is turned on again, you’re back at the first setting. The vibrations are more buzzy than rumbly, but they are fairly quiet. The vibrations can be heard from beneath the covers but not through a closed door. The vibrations can be felt through the sleeve but are a bit weaker than without. On the highest setting, the vibrations have a vroom level of 3 out of 5.

Both the cock ring and Buddy can be cleaned with soap and water, toy wipes, or a toy cleaning spray. Since the sleeve to the Buddy is not sterilizable, it is not recommended to share the sleeve unless you cover it with a condom. The plastic bullet to the Buddy can be sterilized by wiped it down with rubbing alcohol.

The items were packaged in a white cardboard box. The front of the packaging states the company name, product line, product name, and the contents of the kit. The back of the packaging has photos of the included products and states a few features of the products in the kit. The packaging is not discreet as it has the words “oral sex” all over it (7 times on the front of the packaging alone).

The products in the kit had their own packaging. The deck of cards was sealed with plastic. The cards came in a box that is similar in appearance to the larger box that all of the products came in. The cock ring came in a thin plastic wrapping. The candy spray was sealed in plastic. The disc was in a white paper sleeve. Lastly, the Oral Sex Buddy had a cardboard packaging with an abundance of information about the product on the back of the packaging. The larger box that all of the items came in could be used for storage, though it’s rather large compared to the items inside.

I enjoyed the kit because of the variety of products, though I didn’t find all of the products as useful as a beginner would. The deck of cards had suggestions such as using a mint during oral sex, licking and sucking it like a lollipop, and making eye contact during the act. The cards that had these types of suggestions were things that I had already done in the past or still do today.

There were a few cards in the deck that did have ideas that I had not done. For example, one of the cards suggests, “put your finger (palm up) inside his mouth, under his tongue to stimulate his frenulum while sucking on his penis frenulum at the same time.” This was new to me and I had never done it before. So the cards did give me a few suggestions that I found helpful.

What I really liked about the cards is that my partner and I could turn it into a game. I told him to pick 2 cards and that I’d do the two things on the cards later in the day for him. Even though some of the cards were things that we had already done, he liked the idea of knowing what was going to happen later that day. It was exciting for him, and seeing him excited like that made me excited, too.

I didn’t enjoy the taste of the spray. It smells like a delicious candy that I’d want to eat, but sadly, the scent is nothing like the taste. It’s very chemically. The bottle says there is no aftertaste but the taste left in my mouth was nasty. My partner also does not like the taste of the spray.

The cock ring stretched to fit my partner nicely. My partner is shaved down there so we didn’t have any issues with the ring grabbing any hairs and tugging on them. I used the Oral Sex Buddy to massage my partner’s testicles while giving him oral sex. He really enjoyed the texture and said that the nubs were a more subtle texture and the vibrations were a nice level. For myself, I wouldn’t be able to use the Buddy for solo play because I prefer stronger vibration levels and rumbly vibrations.

I’ve deducted only one star from the rating because of the taste of the spray. While some of the products weren’t very useful for me, I think a person who is new to performing fellatio could benefit from it.