Once upon a time I was in my first serious relationship and having sex for the first time. I was so nervous and inexperienced that I had trouble climaxing. (Boy how things have changed, right?) In any case, that's how I came to purchase this product.

First things first, it does the job. This is very easy to use and my little one ounce pot has lasted a long time. The directions printed on the label are to "lovingly apply to clitoris," and that's all there is to it. It wasn't necessary to slather it on, either, a lil' dab will do ya... as it were.

Now on to details: my particular jar is berry flavored. It smells sweet like a berry milkshake, and it's an attractive, non staining light blue color. I wouldn't say it's a great flavored product, but it's edible. The flavor takes the back burner behind its main feature of being an arousal creme. It tastes a little on the blueberry side, but it also causes the lips and tongue to go a little numb during oral sex. In fact, I think I would've been happy if they hadn't bothered to make it suitable for oral sex, and just made it as a general arousal creme.

The creme is cool at first, but when applied to the clitoris it quickly feels rather comfortable. The sensations I experienced were almost like waves of extra sensitivity with every motion of my partner. It's not the same as an orgasm caused by g-spot stimulation, which is normally very intense, it's more like if someone gently rubbed their finger on your clitoris during sex. It's a very coaxing, pleasurable, non-threatening feeling that gradually allows you to build up to the real deal.

I can say this for sure; I credit this for helping me have my first orgasms with a partner! I probably wouldn't suggest that it be applied inside the vagina directly, but overall it's safe for use all over the area. There is no sugar in this product, so it will not cause a yeast infection.

As a side note; I did try this out on my new male partner, to see if he would experience similar sensations on the head of his penis. It didn't work at all for him unfortunately. They're not kidding when they say "female response cream."

Ingredients: sunflower oil, glycerol monosterate, stearic acid, sorbitol, cetyl alcohol, sodium benzoate, potassium sorbate, propylparaben, FD&C colors, flavors.

I have to admit that I've stopped using this. Now that I am able to achieve earth-shattering orgasms on my own, applying this feels messy and necessary. It was a great starter product and I am thankful for that.