What’s so alluring about clit and nipple jewelry?

Why does anyone wear jewelry? I wear earrings and necklaces to feel pretty and attractive. They are a way to express my personality and complement an outfit. However, when it comes to erotic jewelry, my reasons for wearing it are slightly different. I wear erotic jewelry because I love to see that look on my partner’s face when he sees me wearing the jewelry for the first time. My breasts are on full display, free of my bra and any other trappings. Bare breasts with hardened nipples are typically enough to peak my man's interest. The little, silver rings attached to each breast draw his attention to my stiffened nipples and goosebumps dotting my chest, adding even more excitement. I’m aroused to be under his scrutiny. His gaze slips downwards to see that I have clit jewelry as well. At this point, I’m practically shaking, my body begging him to take me. The metal beads attached to the clit clamp pull on my already overly-sensitive genital area, pushing me further into a sexual frenzy. I can’t wait for him to pound into me.


Out-of-the-Box Impressions



Within the first couple weeks of meeting my partner, we talked about body piercings. He expressed his interest in nipple piercings, however, we agreed to wait on actually piercing my nipples until we could find the time to go together. So, I got this item for him, a way to wear nipple and clit jewelry without needing to stick a needle through my skin. I was excited when the package arrived. The packaging is simple, displaying the jewelry through the clear plastic. There are two non-piercing nipple rings and one non-piercing clitoral pin. Behind the jewelry is an information card that highlights what this set has to offer. The metal is non-tarnishing, so after you wash the arousal off your clitoral jewelry, you don’t need to worry about the added moisture tarnishing the metal. The product page says the metal is steel.



There were no further instructions included in the package. I found this a bit strange since I had many questions. What was the best way to clean this product? How should I attach the clit clamp? It was up to me to find these answers.


In-My-Grasp Impressions

Holding the items in my hands for the first time, I was surprised how light they felt. Maybe I’m just used to heavy, dangly earrings, but the nipple rings barely weighed much at all. The clitoral jewelry was heavier; it actually felt weighted.

Before using this product, I washed the toys with soap and water, making sure to dry the metal thoroughly. With earrings, I typically clean the metal using rubbing alcohol on a cotton ball. I will likely switch to this method for future uses.


Non-Piercing Nipple Rings

These non-piercing nipple rings are partial circles of metal with balls on the ends. To attach the rings, I first pinch my nipples until they stiffen. Once the nipples are hard, it is easier to attach the jewelry. I press one ball into the side of my nipple and squeeze my nipple into the opening so the skin is pinched between the metal balls.



The nipple rings were larger than expected. I was expecting them to be about the size of the small nipple rings you sometimes see on men that hang just below their nipple. From the size-proportionate drawing above that I created in Photoshop, you can see that the actual loop of the ring was far larger than my areola. After the initial shock from the size of the rings passed, I was happy with the way they looked on me.

The rings are fairly loose, so you will not be able to tug on the nipple rings. I tried squeezing the rings closed using pliers, but I worried about damaging the rings or snapping the delicate metal. I’m guessing that the nipple rings are unweighted because they would not stay on someone’s nipples if they were any heavier. I could wear these rings without them falling off. However, when I stretched my arms above my head, brushed my nipple against something, or tugged on the jewelry, the ring would slip off.

Non-Piercing Clitoral Jewelry

At first, I was so confused about how the clitoral jewelry was supposed to attach to my clit. I actually needed to look at images online to figure out how to attach the clamp. Through exploration, I discovered, that, depending on your anatomy, you will need to attach the clit pin differently. My vagina, like every vagina is unique. While the right side of my labia minora is prominent, I would not be able to grab enough of the labia on the left side to hold the jewelry in place. While I could use the larger labia method for a small amount of time, I found that the smaller labia method worked best for me.



Large Labia – When I searched online for clit jewelry, I found more clitoral jewelry attached to women with large labia. Women with large labia have folds of skin that wing out around their vaginal opening. To attach clitoral jewelry, you can pinch the labia together and slip the pin around the lips. When attached, the clit will be surrounded by metal and the vaginal lips will be slightly pinched together. As you can see in size-proportional drawing I created in Photoshop, the beads on the jewelry hang just below the vagina. When I’m lying on my back and the clitoral jewelry is attached in this manner, the beads brush against the sensitive skin below my vagina.

Small Labia – For women with smaller labia, who don’t have the vaginal lips to clip the clit pin on, I found this method worked best. The top of the pin (opposite the beads) is rounded. The metal nearest to the two strands of beads is pinched together. I held the skin around my clit and slipped the top of the pin around the folds. Then, I slowly inched the pin upwards so the skin was pinched between the metal tongs. I have attached clothespins to my pussy before. While the metal clit jewelry pinched my clit, the sensation was far less painful than the clothespins. I felt like the metal pin kept the jewelry secure. While it felt like someone was squeezing my clit, I would not classify the sensation as painful.

I found that, when my pussy got wet, as long as I was using the small labia method to attach the clitoral jewelry, the pin stayed in place. In fact, I could jump up and down without the pin flying off. Movement certainly added to the pulling and pinching sensation.

Overall, I really enjoyed the sensation of my clit being pinched by the clip. I especially enjoyed the feeling of submission that washed over me when my Daddy Dom asked me, “How does that feel?” I knew that I was taking this small amount of pain for my Daddy’s enjoyment.