I <3 Female Orgasm is a wonderful book that is dedicated to, as you might guess, women's orgasms. It is a great book for anyone who wants more insight into female sexuality whether it be for yourself or for a partner to read. It will appeal to a wide variety of readers including lesbian and straight readers as well as male readers.

I <3 Female Orgasm is an educational book by Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller. Dorian and Marshall are a married couple and they are both sex educators and their strong academic knowledge really shows throughout the book. It's clear they've done their research, and they include many excerpts of student surveys to give individual points of view rather than just numbers and statisics and really ends up giving a variety of viewpoints when it comes to sexuality. However, it doesn't read like a textbook and doesn't make the material too complicated to understand. The book is very readable, and has a friendly and understanding tone to it. Because of how the book is broken up with pictures and side notes, it is good just for reading a couple pages at a time or for reading several chapters at once.

The chapters cover a variety of topics. Because of this it may not go as in depth as some readers would like. There is a lot of broad information covered, and the book will cover a lot of base and will probably satisfy the needs of most people who read it. If you are just interested in the subject matter of one chapter, it might be best to pick up a book that focuses solely on that topic. It covers information for straight relationships as well as bisexual and lesbian relationships, so no one is excluded.

The chapter and subject list is as follows:

1 The Lowdown on the Big O
2 Petting the Bunny: Masturbation & Female Orgasm
3 So You Want to Have an Orgasm?
4 Going Down, Down Baby: Oral Sex and Female Orgasm
5 Doin' It, Doin' It, and Doin' It Well: Intercourse & Female Orgasm
6 G Marks the Spot: The G-Spot and Female Orgasm
7 Vibrators, Toys & Piercings, Oh My!
8 Let's Hear It for the Boys: Men and Female Orgasm
9 Coming with Pride: Lesbian, Biexual, Transgender, Queer, and Straight-but-Adventurous Orgasms
10 Knocking at the Back Door: Advice for the Anally-Curious
11 Preventing Bugs and Babies: Safer Sex and Birth Control

There are a lot of fun random facts throughout the book and a lot of helpful hints. The book stresses the importance of being comfortable with yourself and not to worry about being supposedly normal. There will likely be new information for both the novice and those with more experience.

I wish I could give a copy of this book to everyone I know. Before I bought this book I did not know a whole lot about my sexuality. I could sometimes give myself a clitoral orgasm with a vibrator, but that was the extent of my knowledge. I had tried and failed at using toys internally, I had no idea about g-spots, female ejaculation, or that having an orgasm during sex could ever be a realistic hope for myself. I figured that's how things are going to be and jut didn't think much about it honestly. I bought this book on a whim thinking that I probably wouldn't learn anything useful and at best I might learn a trick or two. I was wrong. I can only think of maybe two or three books that I can honestly say have changed my life, and this book is one of them. This book taught me the tools I needed to do the real exploring I needed to do to find what really worked for me in the bedroom. It gives a lot of suggestions for common issues women have which prevent them from reaching orgasm, and I was able to use the suggestions.

I've had this book about a year now, every part of my sex life has changed. The orgasms I had before are barely even comparable to the earth shattering ones I am able to have now. My sex life has improved so much that I can barely believe it. I've learned to use toys, find sex positions that work for me. I have even been able to learn how to work through different issues that prevented me from having orgasms in the past.