When many people think of the word "Mistress" or "Domme" They automatically assume we mean a woman holding a cat o nine tails, dressed in a shiny rubber catsuit with 6 inch heels. How far from the actual truth of what a true Mistress is is that idea?

This book clearly outlines how to become a better sensual dominant female. The book is jam packed of great ideas from how to carry yourself as a dominant to ideas of scenes to do with you submissive. Let's not forget the clothing that I mentioned earlier. The clothes will NEVER make someone a dominant, the domme, MAKES the clothes part of her personal and this book also outlines that. If you have any questions you have unanswered regarding Dominant and submissive relationships and how to properly channel your dominance, this book is definitely for you.

the book is separated into three different 'Parts' and 14 chapters in all which cover a wide range of questions and address various things.

Part 1
Part 1 consists of 4 chapters regarding how to get started as a mistress.

Chapter 1: Why become a mistress?: Some unexpected pleasures.
Chapter 2: The reluctant mistress: Learning to love command.
Chapter 3: Finding or creating a submissive male.
Chapter 4: Maintaining your relationship: Balancing fantasy and reality.

As you can tell, the names of these chapters are fairly self describing and they are very thorough. For any of you who have worries about how to mold you man into a submissive or how to find the perfect sub, this is definitely the first place to start. You will not be disappointed.


Part 2
Part 2 consists of how to get in action. Basically how to execute your dominance over an establish submissive.It consists of the following 4 chapters.

Chapter 5: Establishing your authority: Ways to make him obey.
Chapter 6: Asserting your dominance: Planning and enacting your first session.
Chapter 7: The art of discipline: Advice, techniques & Implements.
Chapter 8: The skills of a mistress: Bondage, humiliation and other forms of control.

This part of the book is very condensed but very quick and to the point. If you need to learn something mentioned above chances are, you'll find everything in these 4 chapters and just exactly how to go about what you need to do with tons of techniques and tips to get you on the right path.



Part 3
Part three is the longest part of the book and consists of 6 chapters outlining different focuses on fantasies. From how address his to your own fantasies and scene situations. The chapters are as follows.

Chapter 9: Discovering his, Fulfilling yours.
Chapter 10: The Nursemaid: Diaper discipline 7 other nursery tricks.
Chapter 11: The Governess: The power of discipline.
Chapter 12: The Queen: Maid service & Petticoat punishment.
Chapter 13: The Amazon: Bondage discipline & Humiliation
Chapter 14: The Goddess: Keeping a worshipper at your feet.

These last 6 chapters are where you'll find the real meat and bones of play fantasies for scenes and how to execute them. The book has literally hundreds of scenarios and ideas in these last 6 chapters. Many of which are common, from secretary at work to variations of all fantasies.

This book is enticing, charming and very very thorough. I highly recommend it with 5 stars to anyone looking to better their skills as a Dominant.

Definitely still consider it a good book to refer back to when in doubt or looking to try something new mentioned in this book.