This book is for anyone who wants to learn how to better pleasure a woman and any woman who wants to become more familiar with herself. With a confident style that is equal parts whimsical and educational, Dr. Kerner outlines the practical ins and outs of cunnilingus and the importance of mutual pleasure in any sexual relationship.

This should be required reading for any man trying to please a woman. This is essentially a road map to the mysterious world of a woman's vulva. Grab this book and educate yourself on the 18 different parts of a woman's clitoris, then take the knowledge to the bedroom. This is a must read!

She Comes First is a great addition to any library for anyone who loves women. Its easy to read style is both informative and engaging. We need more female sexuality literature like this in the world!

A must read, and not just for beginners. Even the more advanced in the subject will find they still learn a trick or two.

I highly recommend this book, the author uses humour, science as well as personal opinion and ties them al together seamlessly. A great read.

This is a great book, which cuts out the pop sexology. It has been enthusiastically written experienced cunnilinguist and qualified sexologist. Despite its reputed strong focus on cunnilingus, it is not just a book about tongue techniques. It considers the logistics of the male and female sexual responses and appropriately addresses the psychological component of female arousal. It does this in ‘manspeak’, or at least with empathy for the male position. I can't wait for my boyfriend to read it!

...If I had seen “She Comes First” in the book store, I would have smiled at the title and cheeky use of suggestive fruit on the cover, approved of its place in the world (hey, anything that benefits a woman's right to “come” automatically gets a thumbs up from me!) but would have looked right over it and never given it a second thought. I'm a heterosexual female after all. What possible use could I have for a book intended for teaching men how to give women better head...?

This is a must have book for beginners, and advanced cunnilinguists alike. It won't bore you, and it is very informative and insightful in learning about the female orgasm.

I would have liked to see more things you can do with your hand while using your tongue. Overall for a good anatomy lesson short of "A" and "U" spot this is a good book. Kerner explains the female genitalia in much more detail than another book I've read.

This is quite possibly the very best book on the topic of women's sexuality, anatomy and sexual experience ever written. Kerner provides a chivalrous and sensual approach to pleasuring a woman. She Comes First ought to be required reading for any present or future lover. A most enjoyable read.

An excellent book on both cunnilingus and (a bit of) female sexuality. Ian does a great job explaining both why and how you should make cunnilingus a part of your sex life. It's on my essential sex reference shelf, and I recommend it to any interested couple (or couple with an interested party).