This video is a good choice for learning some massage techniques to use on a male partner. It offers a lot of information on incorperating more sesuality into the relationship. It takes a spiritual and holistic approach that really encourages connection between the two partners.
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Nice techniques, lots of extra information, holistic view to sexuality
Red Hot Touch: Genital Massage for Men by New World Sex Education is an instructional video on massage techniques to arouse, and stimulate the male partner in your life. It is a very sexy and sensual video and has a lot of great information. It's not only great for learning genital massage, but there is also a lot of additional information on several topics such as tantra, touch, and orgasm and ejaculation control.
The video is 30 minutes long which to me seemed like a good length. It makes for great foreplay as a start to a sexy evening, but would also be great to do on it's own. The video goes through many different techniques to stimulate your male partner with. It goes through several moves and uses a variety of speeds, pressure, and types of touch to stimulate these the penis, testicles, and perineal areas. Throughout the video there are also tips about different techniques that might be better for certain people based on their individual anatomy. Jaiya also encourages exploration and really learning your partner's body, so this isn't a video that you need to follow exactly. The techniques can be used whether your partner is erect or not.
To do the techniques you will need either massage oil or lube. We found that massage oil worked better without getting sticky. Jaiya recommends coconut oil in the video. It might be a good idea to familiarize yourself with some male anatomical terms before watching this video as Jaiya uses some pretty specific terminology.
The actors in the video are all very attractive, but not 'fake' looking like you see in many porn movies. Everyone in the video appears to be in a couple and truely seems to be enjoying themselves. They are very sensual and really give a great feel to the video and don't make it feel either too porn-like or too cold and instructional feeling. It's really nice to see couples who appear to be enjoying themselves so much and appearing to really be in love and having a real connection.
All of the couples are heterosexual, but I don't believe that the video was trying to intend that homosexual couples could not use these techniques as well.
For the main video you can watch it with narration and music, or with music alone. You can play it straight through or jump to a scene. The production values were better than I was expecting and I really have no complaints about them.
There are many extras included with this DVD, including behind the scenes information, previews of other videos,
Many of the segments are the same as in the Genital Massage for Women video, but there are a couple that are different as well. The extra segments are great and provide some wonderful information on sexuality and how to bring more sensuality into your relationship and information on having deeper orgasms.
The extra segments include: Daily Tantric Practice, Sensual Space, Touch Skill, Sexual Trust, Male Orgasm, and Ejaculation Control.
If you like this video, you will likely also enjoy Jaiya's website. She has a lot of quality information and hosts a podcasts that cover many topics related to sexuality.
Just like with the other video in this series that we have seen thus far (genital massage for women), the genital massage for men was really a wonderful experience for us. It really was a connecting experience that really left him feeling pampered, loved, and well taken care of. He said that the techniques felt very unique, but also very nice. He also said that while he did not believe he would be able to orgasm using these techniques, that it did feel wonderful to have the extra physical attention. It seemed more sensual than sexual to us and was definitely a wonderful way to spend the evening.
I learned a lot about my partner through doing this video and what kinds of touches are pleasurable to him. The video is great about taking you through a lot of different techniques and it really felt like we were in a workshop with Jaiya herself. I walked away from this video with a lot of new ideas on what I can do in the future to please my partner, and while it may not be something we do every night, it's wonderful for when we want to slow down and really take the time to let me pamper him.
I would highly recommend this video either on its own or accompanying the other videos in the Red Hot Touch Series.
Follow-up commentaryI still like it4 months after original review
We've done this video a few times now and it is always a very intimate experience. I can't reccomend it enough if you are looking to increase your intimacy with your partner. This series of videos has given me great tips that I incorperate into our play all the time. I think this was one of the best purchases I have made for our sex life.
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