Recently while out to lunch with a group of girl friends the topic like it always will do changed to sex, whose having it, whose happy with it, whose not getting it enough etc. During this discussion one of my friends [lets call her Ali] admitted that her sex drive is almost non-existent at this point. Part of the problem she said is her lack of interest in sex which stems from the fact that she is the only person that her boyfriend of 2 years has ever been with and when they first started dating she used to fake her orgasms to make him feel better but now he just always assumes that she is satisfied as she has never bothered to tell him otherwise.

Upon hearing this I felt it was almost my duty to help and try to change her situation. So I took to the internet and began to look around for books and other items that might be able to help them both get on the right path. I stumbled across the book How to Be a Bedroom Goddess|How to Be a Bedroom Goddess and i thought to myself hey for the price i might as well get two as maybe I could learn something as well.

This book though ended up being more of an impulse purchase than anything else. While the book is attractively presented the first 43 of 64 pages are devoted to the Goddess through Time [Ancient Greece, Rome, the Enlightment etc], where as the remaining pages are devoted to the Modern Goddess and the 5-step modern goddess lifestyle plan.

The book offers tips and suggestions such as:

  - Change your attitude on lovemaking see it as not "romantic" but as a way of promoting good health;
  - Work gradually towards intercourse and build up arousal to the point of losing inhibitions;
  - Offers different suggestions and scenarios for role playing;
  - Be outside for at least one hour a day;
  - Drink 8 glasses of water a day to stay hydrated;