Being an avid reader, I love good books. Expanded Orgasm is a good book. It is one of those that you pick up, read a bit, grab a piece of paper to make yourself some must do notes; then you can’t wait to pick it up again.

This book, by Dr. Taylor, moves a couple from basic education of what an orgasm really is to complete participation in extending and then expanding that orgasm. Expanded Orgasm has very practical and measured assignments that help you go from one step to another effortlessly. I found the assignments given could be used for many areas of life; in fact, almost any area of life where we need to do some self-reflecting and improvement.

Taking two couples from different milestones in their relationships was genius. It not only helps those that have been in a long-term, committed relationship for twenty years or more but also the newly formed relationships of only a few months that are looking at forming that lifelong commitment. This technique helps Taylor form a bond with readers at any point in their journey toward expanded orgasms. Not only will it help with expanding the orgasm, but it also encourages a strengthened bond between committed partners. This type of orgasm will not be felt between couples on random basis; it only comes from those that are willing to put the time and effort into satisfying and gratifying the other partner in their life, and that only comes with time and practice—something that seems to be a missing component in many of today’s relationships in this culture.

I was also delighted to find that this was no pamphlet with a quick fix. Instead it is over 300 pages of well written and practical advice that any couple can do if they so desire; no pictures or boring diagrams that will not help, just expert information that has been tried, proven, and written in a way that is not boring or too clinical. This helps people to face their greatest intimate fears in a doable way. It actually gives people a reason to do some things they may have thought of doing before but were afraid to ask their partner for, such as taking time to explore yourself physically and emotionally then also sharing and examining the physical and emotional needs of your partner. It encourages you to share thoughts that you may have kept hidden that hindered that connection you both desire.

I highly recommend this book for any couple at any stage of their relationship.