"Sex Tips from a Dominatrix" is a book intended to help the reader navigate the complicated world of BDSM. BDSM is a catchall term for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism, so the author has quite a bit to cover. Topics covered in this book include determining if you're a dominant or a submissive, introducing your lover to BDSM, BDSM clothing, rope bondage, other types of bondage, gags, impact play, play party and club decorum, dungeon furniture, setting up your bedroom to be used for kink, traveling while kinky, exercise routines (a chapter which I personally don't find necessary), meeting people in the community, and "advanced" activities.
The intended audience of this book seems to be rich, able-bodied, thin, white cis-women*, with a background in fashion, or other kinksters willing to laugh at nonsense and glean good advice where it's offered. I wouldn't recommend this book to newcomers because the author neglects important safety advice in places and gives some truly terrible advice in others, but for an intermediate or advanced kinkster who already has a basis of knowledge from which to work, the author of this book has some interesting suggestions and a few innovative ideas that I, for one, hadn't heard up until this point. Not to mention that the author presents some very useful information on care of fetish clothing, knot-tying, proper rope storage, the pros and cons of various types of rope, care and use of impact toys, and other topics. It is, in fact, the best resource I've found to date for descriptions and care of fetish clothing, equipment, and rope.
There is a chapter on finding your place in the world of dominance and submission that I found to be mostly useless. This chapter did, however contain the advice that a dominant must be willing to learn how to do each BDSM activity safely. There was also a chapter on introducing BDSM to your partner that I found in bad taste. That particular chapter read like the setup to a BDSM-themed romantic comedy featuring a husband and wife both trying to assume the role of dominant. (The author suggests that the reader should "strip down to something sexy" if their partner is aroused by a portrayal of an enslaved woman.)
The chapter on BDSM clothing was a mix-bag of good advice and bad stereotypes, and the chapter on rope bondage was overall extremely informative. Unfortunately, the author did insinuate that using any of the quick, practical ways to seal the ends of a rope will look "wimpy." The only way to be an "accomplished domme," according to her, is to seal the ends by whipping them. Whipping is a technique used by nautical rope-users that requires a good bit of skill and practice to learn, and may require special equipment, so this isn't the most practical advice.
The topics covered were overall extremely mild, and unlikely to frighten anyone away.
*Women whose assigned gender matches their chosen gender and their body.
More than that---the knot tying reminds me of the difference between a harbor full of yachts, and a harbor full of fishing boats. The yacht harbor will have all the of leftover rope wrapped in dainty spirals around the cleat, while the fishing harbors have a useful cleat knot and leave the rest of the rope spread out so it's not tangled and not getting wet. The yacht guys are always going to look down their noses at the fishermen, but honestly? Nobody's boat is floating away. Unless you're posing for pictures, I'm usually fine with the practical approach. Thanks for letting me know to look elsewhere!
To be honest, we're a lot alike in that department. I hate followers of the "One True Way" in any group, they have a way of making others feel unwelcome.
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